Ok my son just asked a question. He's in the hospital in his laptop on the net but I just found out something. I am using in username he's letting me. But he lied when he said he was 14 on one of the questions but anyways. How old should a boy be before wanting to know about sex and having a girlfriend.
2006-09-28 03:14:02 · 5 answers · asked by Alberto Inestine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
13-14, PARENTS SHOULD SIT DOWN AND HAVE A TALK WITH HIM.
2006-09-28 03:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as parents it is our responsibility to explain sex to our children, depending on the maturity of the child. (different for all) some as early as 11, 12, 13 years of age. If we as parents do not have this open discussion, they will seek the answers from other peers, and in this wonderful world of the Internet yes even here. You don't want them to get the wrong info so as a parent it is your job to have the conversation. I have four son's, personally, I do not feel they need to have a girlfriend until at least the age of 16 or 17 years of age. They may have female friends however dating is out of the question. They are just not emotionally ready and able to handle the stresses of a relationship. They need to concentrate on education, and their are other things like church youth groups, sports, co-ed dances at school, to keep them occupied. The girls will be there when they are more mature. And besides at 11, 12, 13, 14, 15 what are they going to do with a girl? Experiment and get themselves into trouble. Knowledge is the key to success, make sure they gain their knowledge from you. If you are unsure of how to open the communication or how to discuss go to the library and get some informational tools to aid you. good luck
2006-09-28 10:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children should be told about sex my there parents as soon as they can understand. You have to let them know that they can come to you with any question they may have about sex. And you won't get upset. If you don't then they will go to someone else to get it and it may be the wrong information. I found that as silly as this may sound the mother is the best one to talk to a son, and dad talks to daughter. A boy needs a woman's point of view and a girl need a mans. It does make a difference believe me.
2006-09-28 10:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should know about sex before having a girlfriend. Biology is appropiate as soon as he knows the difference between girls and boys. Knowledge is power, and teaching him respect for his body while he still listens to you is a very good idea. He needs to know you can talk to him without squirming. Its up to you to get there before his friends do so he can protect himself from disease, and reassure himself about his own sexuality being normal. Boys, do, so to speak, have their sexuality "out in front", so they have more questions about what is normal for their bodies to do.
2006-09-28 10:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that diffucult to answer but i think it all depend on the boy or girl body how fast it develope i think that all but also kids in this world are very curious they want to know everything even the smallest things that really are not important.
2006-09-28 10:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by LINDA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋