2006-09-28 03:13:28 · 29 answers · asked by Sueeee....... 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
being a quiet person myself I have asked this question so many times. It is not that you don't have something to say OK sometimes it is but why do people feel they have to know exactly what you are thinking ALL the time and why do people speak only to hear there own voice. I think sometimes I don't say much cause I am scared I sound like the thousand idiots around me. If have something to say and it Will actually contribute to the conversation or make a difference I will say it. But don't ask me to say something its like you are expecting this great revolution to come out of my mouth. If I had something to share don't you think I would have!! No there is nothing wrong with being silent at the right times and sharing on the right times. Just listen to the idiots around you saying nothing, Just remember to also listen to those who can bring some meaning
2006-09-28 03:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by CiCi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never wonder about being a quiet person if that is the way you are. A quiet person is no different that a loud person, it is just that a loud person tends to be notice more and people are more aware of them because they make sure people hear them. No one should ever change how they are as a person unless it is something that is wrong or illegal , then changes have to be made. I was quiet person when I was younger, then as I advanced in life, I became more talkative and outgoing, but not loud. People should accept you for who you are, no matter what. We NO right to judge anyone for who they are because we all have flaws and are not perfect. So if someone tells you that you need to change, then don't. People can always give you suggestions on how to be more outgoing and active, but as long as it doesn't change you as a person, then go for it. We are all different and that is what makes this world so great, diversity , so stay put and just enjoy life...wooo hooo....lol
2006-09-28 03:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by ~~1GR8GUY~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing 'bad' about being a quiet person. Quiet people tend to be more observant and thus sometimes can be accused of being conniving or stuck up, but the only caveat is that a quiet person learn to speak up when necessary (in the same way as a talkative person needs to stop talking and listen).
2006-09-28 03:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by ldylili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't bad to be quiet. Just make sure you listen to what others say, make sure you make it a point to say hello and goodbye to people, no matter how hard it is to do.
It is okay to be quiet...other people sometimes think you are being snobby or mean if they don't know you...that is why I say you need to at least acknowlege other people in the room. Look them in they eyes, and pay attention to your expression. Try to smile a little when you look at people.
2006-09-28 05:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the most highly respected are quiet. Around here, we love people who are quiet, but when asked for their opinion, they seem to surprise us with fabulous answers and if given a task, they just go do it and don't look at you afterward like you owe them a thank you. Quiet people that just do what they are supposed to do always get my respect.
2006-09-28 03:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always the quiet ones that should be feared. They don't come right out and say their thoughts like other people. It makes people wonder what's going on in there.......... (I'm quiet...i think its a good thing.)
2006-09-28 03:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend what you mean... merely tell them that you're quiet round human beings you're not any further fascinated in. j/ok merely say that you've nopthing to say to human beings you do not truly comprehend. you've a special personality, it truly is wonderful although. God did not choose honestly anybody to be quite social. i changed into put in a situation once the position the adults in my existence theory i changed into anti social because I wasn't a flamboyant youngster like human beings in my college. I wasn't the fellow to be like 'ohehmgee, blah blah blah' yet i nonetheless had an incredible style of pals and those who knew me. ignore them, in the adventure that they don't opt to take the time to get comprehend you, and merely choose instead ignore them. Like once you're at a social gathering, you don no longer ask the quiet guy, why are you so quiet to get him to communicate. You provide him interest and ask him questions about his outfits, or his telephone, or the social gathering. you do not merely state the glaring. you're not any further mute lol they opt to stop appearing like rah rah rahs, you comprehend, the loud mouth women that social gathering another evening and picture they are cool because they go out with 5 different adult men. Then they celebration and they are like rah rah rah rah great loud. you're wonderful. keep on with a special crowd.
2016-12-06 07:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by putz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to be quiet then be loud and make a butt out of yourself.Then eveyone will talk bad about you then if you quiet that give them not to much to talk about
2006-09-28 03:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by funoburgmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...its not bad to be quiet...sometimes people tend to feel loneliness, and loneliness has nothing to do with being bad...
its better to be quiet than to be talkative...because to be quiet has less tendency to say something bad about others...
2006-09-28 03:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by red_rules! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Quiet can mean your a good listener too...that's a good trait to have.
2006-09-28 03:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋