The reason why I asked this question is alot of times I see a fine man staring at me but in a good way I want to conversate with him but i'm to shy and insecure I just figured I probaly wasn't hot enough to do that.
2006-09-28 02:56:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
No, but you do have to be really confident to date a handsome man.
2006-09-28 02:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you right now, one of the most attractive things in a female is SELF CONFIDENCE!!! Looks are indeed important to a degree, but guys like women who will take the initiative to walk up to them and talk. You have NOTHING to lose! TRY IT!!
Oh yeah...oddly enough, scent is another really important thing. The hottest woman on earth can become unattractive instantly if she doesn't smell good!
See? You're in good shape! THese are both things you have control over! Besides....women always think they are WAY less attractive then they actually are. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. Seriously.
2006-09-28 10:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by mr3dphd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh the way you sell yourself! As if you're over 80 or something! Come now; if you love someone, you gotta say it out loud. Would you like to hear one of my favourite quotes from pride and prejudice?
Here they are:
Mr. Darcy: Miss Elizabeth. I have struggled in vain and I can bear it no longer. These past months have been a torment. I came to Rosings with the single object of seeing you... I had to see you. I have fought against my better judgment, my family's expectations, the inferiority of your birth by rank and circumstance. All these things I am willing to put aside and ask you to end my agony.
Elizabeth Bennet: I don't understand.
Mr. Darcy: I love you.
And do be aware that Elizabeth did like Darcy in the end. It all fits.
2006-09-28 10:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by df 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! Fair enough, every1 likes somethin to look at but the novelty soon wears off if you cant keep a decent conversation with the person. Personality all the way. Shy n sensitive can be big factors for men. You should just go for it n be yourself n if they dont appreciate you for who yo are then he aint worth your time n effort
2006-09-28 10:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Billy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definetely believe that it's all in the will power. The way you see yourself is the way others will perceive you. if you are self-confident others will be drawn by you. here are some practical tips:
1. dress with clothes that you are comfortable in and make you feel good about yourself. At the same time they must make a statement about who you are.
2. when you are out, enjoy yourself. Don't look as if you only went out to find someone - if its meant to be its meant to be. In the worst case, you will have enjoyed a night out with friends.
3. When you do see someone you're interested in, believe in yourself to be the woman he was waiting for. don't try to find the reasons for him not to be interested in you, but focus on our your good traits and project these. Flirting is a mind game and not a looks competition. Make sure he notices you and play along with what comes next. If nothing happens, remember, its his loss!
good luck
2006-09-28 10:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by natashabo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I see many very attractive people with those who are not as good looking. It can be either the male or the female. It depends on what the man likes. He may find you to be beautiful and sincerely so:)
2006-09-28 10:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Etienne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are universals, but attraction is largely subjective. I can think of two or three instances in which I saw guys--real foxes--hooking up and even dating girls that I wouldn't have guessed would be their type. But these guys saw the beauty in them.
Similarly, have you ever stopped to think, maybe these handsome men you notice looking at you might not consider themselves handsome?
2006-09-28 10:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by harpy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, eveyone wants something nice to look at but u also want someone who can talk and hold a decent conversation, who wants all beauty no brains, u have to build ur confidence up, u have to know and love ur self before u can get to know or commit ur self to someone
2006-09-28 10:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Coco Bunny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up the goods and you can get that handsome man even if you are an ugly duckling.
2006-09-28 10:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Trips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know how hot you are? If HE thinks that you are hot enough, then go for it! If you don't try at all, how are you in a different position than if you tried and failed? At least if you tried, you won't be wondering "what if"?
2006-09-28 10:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋