I have a friend, we went to school toghether and have been friends for 16 years. Ive changed alot since then, but he hasnt. We were supposed to go to australia next year but i dont want to go with him. We just dont share enough anymore, how do I let him know how i feel with out making him go balistic? Im basically his only friend, and hes a shut in, he wont go out and meet new people.
2006-09-28 02:53:12 · 4 answers · asked by imunalia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to help him meet new friends by bringing some over to meet him that are more like him ("Hey this is my friend ____, he likes computers too!"), and then slowly ease him away.
A friendship that took 16 years of your life can't be wiped away easily.
2006-09-28 03:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatemeringue_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably you should tell him to change his attitude.tell him that you still care about him.that you just want him to grow up a little.16 years is a long time.is ashamed to end a friendship that has been going on this long
2006-09-28 10:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by anastasia p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him or pretty soon you will be saying"Im basically his only friend, and hes a shut in, he wont go out and meet new people." do want that all your life?
2006-09-28 09:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by anuneha31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is tough. could you some way take other people to visit him & that way he would be meeting others,then go from there .never know unless you try it.
2006-09-28 10:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋