ok i just transered to a new school and i found out that my best friend from 4th grade and so on goes there...but shes also friends with these two really hated people.one of them i'm cool with but the other i really really really don't like.
my best friend is pretty much on the popular side but chooses to hang out with the two of them.
i also have made some new friends that are in the popular crowd but they don't like my best friend or the two other girls.
so what should i do?
2006-09-28 02:51:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I REALLY REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH THAT ONE PERSON,SHE REMINDS ME OF SOMEONE THAT I REALLY EXTREMLY HATE FROM 1ST GRADE!!
ALSO SHE LOOKS AND ACTS,SMELLS,EXACTLY LIKE HER SO THAT REALLY AIN'T GONA WORK OUT IF I'M GONNA BE FRIENDS WITH THAT UGLY AS.S JERK
2006-09-28 02:57:03 · update #1
and i'm SERIOUS
2006-09-28 02:57:37 · update #2
tell her that you'll hang out with her as long as she's not around them, and if she starts to act like them you'll stop hanging around her. she'll get the picture, if not then she likes them better. but if you guys have a falling out you should let her know that you'll still always be there, because after all shes an old friend.
2006-09-28 03:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. First of all, moving to a new school and making new friends is hard. You said that you've made some new friends, so you should really be proud of yourself. Obviously, you have qualities that others look for in a friend. Otherwise you wouldn't have had the same best friend since the fourth grade. Don't let her go, just because of her new friends. She was the new kid, too at some point and had to form new friendships. Try to see what it is about her circle that brought them together. You might be surprised. And after giving these people a real chance, and you still aren't interested in their company, there's nothing that says you can't still hang out with your old BFF one on one.
2006-09-28 10:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself and don't get involved in the "politics." You will be the bigger person for it in the long run if you keep yourself out of gossip and the mean games some girls play.
Why are you so obsessed with "popular"? Do you not realize that doesn't mean anything except to the people in that particular clique? You sound like you still have a lot of growing up to do.
2006-09-28 09:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always have room for more friends - stay true to your best friend, try to be nice to the other people and time will sort it out - make new friends and keep the old, one is silver and the other is gold!
2006-09-28 09:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta choose girl or try your very best to be friends with everyone which is not as easy as it sounds.
2006-09-28 09:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Dee I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is kinda hard.maybe try to make peace with the person you dont like.if that doent work tell your friend that you dont like that person.maybe it will work.
2006-09-28 09:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by anastasia p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is really your best friend you will adapt or get over her friends that you hate!?!?!?!?
2006-09-28 09:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by maya j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be your choice.Who is more important to you?the answer to this question is the answer to your question
2006-09-28 09:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋