My ex husband and I were on a friends basis, we've been divorced for 2 years. The other day he stopped by and he started talking about us getting back together and I said no. He wanted to argue and I told him to leave and he said no, he wasn't going anywhere and proceeded to go downstairs. I told him to get out or else I am calling the police and he left. After that he isn't allowed in my house and that friendship stopped. How would you feel if you asked someone to leave and they told you no, they weren't going anywhere. What would you of done to get them out?
2006-09-28 02:29:24 · 18 answers · asked by jonda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You did exactly what I would have done. Good for you.
2006-09-28 02:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hamish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be shocked if your son would desire to desire to bypass and stay with dad because of the fact of a drug situation of his own. i'm a recoveriing alcoholic (25+ years sober) and became surprised whilst my sixteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old reported as me from reformatory. besides come to be certain he have been into ingesting and each now and then drugging considering 14 and we've been clueless. you may desire to exhibits, if your husband is keen to take your son, tell him you will evaluate it if dad has a drug screening, and keeps to bypass a drug screening for 6 months. significant issues first, attempt to get a real trouble-free answer as to why your son is so adamant approximately residing along with his father. Ask him if he has ever had an probability to sneak a lager or tobacco or something mutually as staying along with his dad. in case you quite think of the ecosystem is undesirable, shop son homestead till dad proves that there is not any drug or alcohol activity whilst the boy is there. Drop in on them the subsequent bypass to or have a mutual male buddy of the two one in all you do it for you. i desire i've got not unfold out a can of worms, and better of luck alongside with your son.
2016-10-18 03:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by trowell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You was not out of line. When you ask someone to leave, ex-spouse or not. They should have left. He sounds like he is trying to control you even after the divorce. Be glad that you are out of the situation in your life. Just look forward with not regrets. Good luck.
2006-09-28 02:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by buckeye45694 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing ... he my have a problem with closer. this can be something that he may need professional help with ... it takes some time for some people to get over relationships... the best way is no contact and time.. unless there's kids involved. tell everyone you know about what happened you may also want to talk to authorities ... and make sure you document in writing what happened.if worst comes to worst .get a restraining order.and if you talk to him anytime soon,let him know exactly how you feel about what happened and just tell him you don't need a response
2006-09-28 02:49:06
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What he did just proved that the decision you made about divorcing him in the first place was the right one. He proved to you that he can't listen and follow directions either. How much plainer can get out be?
2006-09-28 02:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a control issue, i have an ex husband just like that and there is no way to be friends with him.... i had to get a civil protection order because it got so bad , sometimes you just cant be nice
2006-09-28 02:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his butt!!! Continue to say this is my house get out. One time I actually picked up a guy and threw him almost out the window. That's how high my adrenaline was. I couldn't believe it either. I hate them situations.
2006-09-28 02:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. I would have done the same thing. He's just showing you he's still and idiot and your divorce was the right decision.
2006-09-28 02:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have said u don't go or i call police and a resteinting order on you if you dont leave
2006-09-28 02:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Dirty_Dancin1223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
called the police
2006-09-28 02:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by wonderin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. He does not have the right to be there once you tell him to get out.
2006-09-28 02:32:09 · answer #11 · answered by goldenfir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋