when I e-mail a male friend. We both took an internet class a couple years ago, had to work on a project together, and have kept in contact. We write every other month and we don't talk about anything personal, just school stuff. I told my husband about it, which I have before, and he totally flipped out! I guess I would be mad if he was writing a girl but we're just friends, less than friends since we know nothing about each other other than school related stuff. Who's right???
2006-09-28 02:19:26 · 26 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its not a matter of who is right or who is wrong you need to understand each other because if he gets jelous coz of that man you need to let that guy go he is insignificant in your life and a stranger who is not worth loosing your marriage which is a holy matrimony
as a wife you ought to be submissive to your husband and help him grow so talk to him try understand him and do what will not bring out the jelous aspect out of him, if anything happpened to you today its him who will run around for you not that stranger so love your husband unconditionally and try understand him and let him know how you are feeling am sure you will come to a solution that will please both of you
all the best girl
2006-09-28 02:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a right to be jealous because we all have the right to our own feelings.
However, it does seem a little unreasonable that he would "wig out". It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong...........but, is your contact with this guy worth the way it's making your husband feel or the problems it's causing?
I think this is one of those things that'll just blow over. Maybe your husband was just having one of those days.
2006-09-28 04:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by andi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all it is between you and your pin-pal from school then your husband has no right to be jealous. Some men believe that women can't have male friends and it not be romantic. This isn't true at all! You should be able to continue your friendship with no worries. Tell your husband you love him and this friend is in no way a threat to him. Good Luck!
2006-09-28 02:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like your husband sending mails to girls - no matter what the mail contents are. Well humans are possessive by nature and i do not think there's anything wrong in his thinking. But that does not mean that you should not have friends and shall not share emails. This should not be an important thing in your life which you have to necessarily share with your husband. If you do - it is special and if itis special itis definately wrong.
2006-09-28 02:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by uwalty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a question of who's right. It's a question of motivation. What is motivating your husbands jealouse. Find that out, and you can determine if this e-mail friend is worth ruining your marriage over. Sometimes in relationships, we have to give up the right for the wrong, although it isn't fair, it may save your marriage then it'll be worth it.
2006-09-28 02:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you would be upset that he was writing to a female even if it was all innocent then I guess it is only fair that he be upset at you. What this really does is bring up trust issues between the two of you. Sounds like you have a possessive relationship rather than one of true love. Bless you as you work through this.
2006-09-28 02:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You said you'd be mad if he was emailing some woman. You also said that this guy is less than friends. So why not just quit talking to him. If he's not much of a freind anyway you won't be loosing much.
2006-09-28 02:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think he has a right to get jealous. But he may just be a kind of person that is really jealous. If he doesn't have a reason to be doubting you then ask him why he is!! We all need friends be them men or women.
2006-09-28 02:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by hip_n_hapnin_lpn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. You said that you would be mad if he e mailed a girl, so why are you judging your husband by a different standard?
2006-09-28 02:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think if you're not hiding it from him, and it's not every day, then there shouldnt be a problem. Be prepared for his new "girl" friend if worse comes to worse. Some guys are just freaking jealous. The same applies to girls.
2006-09-28 02:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋