why is my fionce` taking too long?he said hewanted to get married?
but he keeps postponding it.he says we need to be finacialy settle but how much is too much settling?i don't care about money and i know we both don't want to live poorly but how can i convince him that you can't ever be ready we already had some heart ache when i miss carried our first child he was willing then ? We have been engaed for almost two years now wat should i do? we had a fight becuse i wanted to quicken the date of our wedding to very son like this year or the next but i don't think it will ever happen!
plus he said hes not the marring type but he wants to spend the rest of his life and will get married someday .Huh?
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2006-09-28 02:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its not really an excuse, but guys get cold feet when they think of settling down with one person. When you are young, you wanna sow your wild oats and play the field so to speak. You need to sit down with him and tell him, " are we or aren't we"?
One thing that scares guys is that almost 50% of people getting married in the last couple of years, end in divorce. It is a lot of pressure on the guys, and on the ladies too. they just know how best to cope with it.
Guys, wake up out there!!! If you got that special person on your arm, make the move, and after the " I Do's" keep and open mind, LISTEN, communicate, and work together to make a long and happy life with one another.
Hey, there are some pretty special young ladies out there waiting for someone to hold them, Love them, care for them, share the world with them.
2006-09-28 02:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps pushing the date back..Maybe he has something on his mind that is pulling him back from wanting to get married.. Sit him down and talk.
2006-09-28 16:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the underlying reason he's hesitating. Is he fearful? Are you doing something to make him change his mind? Find out.
2006-09-28 09:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos he got no money
2006-09-28 09:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋