All I hear about Are Deadbeat Dads that give the rest of us a Bad Name. How bout dissin crackwhore moms for a?

Question

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Scuse me for gettin offended everytime I hear a Deadbeat dad story that makes it sound like everybody Must be a deadbeat dad.



I've always Not ONLY took care of My own son but also my ex's first daughter who at 24 yrs of Age finally Met her Real Dad only to have him Deny that he Knew about her. (he's Known all along and High Tailed it out of there when he found out)
Ive never missed a payment.
helped put her through college and bought her a Car.
I get my son a Lot more than court appointed time.

The ex btw has Recently gotten Pregnant in order to force her latest BF to marry her :-s ( Boy Do I feel Sorry for Him! lol)

So Lets Quit assuming that every guy is a deadbeat Dad.
I do Feel sorry for the Kids out there who are suffering from a deadbeat dad. I'm just trying to stand up for those of us who arent one:-s

Excuse me For Sounding Off :-s

Thank you!

Answer 1

Hey! I completely agree, and everytime I answer a question about "deadbeats dads" I always put my two cents in about it not being a gender specific attitude. My husband's ex is a deadbeat mom. The reason for these statements is just because of both ignorance, and the sad fact that statistically speaking, there ARE more dead bead fathers than mothers. ♥

Answer 2

You're absolutely right! My brother is divorced and has a 7 year old daugher. He pays his child support and has a lovely bond with his daugher. The problem is his ex wife... she hates the bond they share. His ex won't let them talk on the phone, comes up with excuses why their daughter can't see him on his weekends, won't meet him at the court appointed drop off location. And the local police won't get involved and force the mother to let them be together. It's so sad because he's making an honest effort to be in his daughter's life. And she loves him and asks, "Daddy, why don't you call me?" In a couple years, she's going to wise up and see what's really going on. Until then, he has another court date, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed that there will be some changes.

Answer 3

I applaud you!!! I don't think that all dads are deadbeats. My daughters dad makes sure he calls at least twice a week and gets her, even though he lives away at least 1-2 times a month. We get along great and it sure is a lot less stressful on us and the kids!!! I am very lucky and so is my daughter. Believe me but i have never seen as many mothers leaving there kids and neglecting them as I have seen in recent years!!! Anyways Kudos to you!!!!

Answer 4

You are a good person and care for you child and the ex's most fathers run for the hills. My own father was great until he re married and she felt that since her ex did not pay for her kid that my father should not have to pay for me. There are plenty of screwed up mothers men just do not complain as much as woman.

Answer 5

who care what everyone think!!!
you have done the right thing and then some.
you should be proud,and not be offended,don't care about
what she does,think of what you have done for the kids.
be proud, i'm raising a niece wo's mother is also on drug,
it frustrate me to see her so torn and sometimes i do feel use.
but i'm saying to myself that i'm doing it for her and not the mother and one day it will come back to me.do it for the love
of the children and not because you want to look better than her

i feel that she hurted you very much and maybe it's revenge
for you,or maybe you want to stay close for somewhat reason
but you have to get over this.

congratulation on being a dedicate father
isabelle

Answer 6

respect for doing what u should do ......(claps )

u have done what anyone would do ...u want a medal ??

basically sure there are deadbeats out there but dont expect a medal remember u had the kid in the first place ..

Answer 7

You hear more of deadbeat dads because there are more of them. While it does happen in the case of women (moms), it's much more infrequent.

Answer 8

I totally agree with you. I'm glad you're doing the right thing for your son and step-daughter. We don't hear about the mothers who desert their children and it's not fair! I know of one, personally, who has rejected both of her children - so sad.

Answer 9

I agree with you. There are as many dead beat dads as there are dead beat moms. Its not a gender thing, some people just shouldn't have children. Way to go on raising your kids.

Answer 10

particular, lifeless human beings will pay attention us out, thats why we would desire to consistently not communicate undesirable approximately them. you're quite a stable infant on your dad considering you presented him the qouran analyzing!! i'm particular he would be pleasured via this... and that i'm saying this in keeping with what our prophet Muhammad reported, and likewise its in keeping with qouran. once you meant to grant the al-Fatihah on your dad, its truthfully is going him, do not hassle. a infant's recite to their mum and dad would be fulfilled via Allah immediately without correct to despite if the infant is sinful or not.. yet on your grandma, u would desire to stay with the circumstances of reciting for somebody else, like u would desire to be purified from unlawful ingredients in Islam, consistently do stable and extra. Its consistently ultimate for us to grant them (the lifeless) some qouran analyzing or stuff in Allah's place.. Like if u pray for somebody in Mecca, it quite is extra Afdhal and extra blessing.. yet homestead, not so undesirable after all. :-)