What would you do if someone told you after 8 years of a relationship they didn't want to be in one anymore and tell you if we were meant to be, we were meant to be and then find out she's talking to someone else?
2006-09-28 02:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by Need Answers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she said she wants to move on than move on I mean some ppl will say that but really mean they want to relationship to go to the next level like marriage but if that is not what happens then they move on so if you really love her and want to get married then ask her but if she still says no that let her go find some one else!!!!
2006-09-28 02:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just a nice way of saying don't fight it I have made my decision it sucks to have wasted all that time I am sorry about your situation but now the best revenge is a life well lived pamper yourself for at least a week get insanly drunk and better your credit score somehow these things will renew your self esteem and how can you go wrong with acomplishment and embellishment good luck and no matter what do not allow her to run right back stand your ground and make yourself strong before ever allowing the I have made a mistake speech which you will here if you follow these suggestions.
2006-09-28 09:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People move on and past mabye your comfort zone, if there were no warnings signs then is the old case of a pure *****/bastard at heart, but mabye you were so in love your focus changed from his/her WANTS to the families NEEDS. Some women and men are like recycled teen agers... be strong, after 3 marriages and 6 kids, 5 step kids and not even 30, im still smiling... if you do end it, tell em thanks, the lesson you just learnt allthough painful, is a life lesson never forgotten and made you such a wiser and more beautiful person....good luck.
2006-09-28 09:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by mumalo36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness, 8 years eh?
Well, for starters I think I would take some time to talk it over.
Apparently something is not what it used to be, and I'm not talking about sex.
Maybe it's the lack of communication, or body language..
Why would anyone want to waste 8 years of their life just like that?..
Try talking it over, maybe you can re-spark whatevers missing.
...But if you cant, then I guess you just have to move on.
2006-09-28 09:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my son, the most important thing i learnt from all the painful crushes i had is that for a love relationship, it needs to work in both direction. as long as one does not have feeling for u, it is important to move on. a wiser decision is to let her go while u can still be good terms. take this opportunity to learn to better yourself and get someone better. never ever stop and hung on the past. best wishes.
2006-09-28 09:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are she just got bored in the relationship and figures she can end it with you and check out this other guy, and if it doesn't work-get back with you. most long drawn out relationships die slowly and for no good reason other than boredom so people seek out someone else as an easy ending. either that or she was just wasting time with you till something else came along. she is stringing you along and doing anything and everything she wants..I suggest you enjoy your freedom for now..cause she is and she'll be back.
2006-09-28 09:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out for sure what they meant, and ask them if they want the relationship to continue.
2006-09-28 09:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want to be with you anymore. Bottom line. Find someone else and moveeeeee on.
2006-09-28 09:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasnt meant to be. Move on
2006-09-28 09:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More then likely she said that to you to make the break up less
messy.Unfortunately that gave you false hope.
The only thing you can do is try to move on.
2006-09-28 09:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋