Ok, I am homeschooled and I'm done for the day already. Anyways, I have a problem. I want a girlfriend and I'm homeschooled. (I don't go to homeschooling group meetings, in my opinion they waste my time.) I go to church but there's only one girl I like there. So if her and I become boy and girlfriend, we will eventually break-up. Then I won't have another girlfriend forever. I don't want to go to Public School, I went for three years and I thought it was a waste of time. I am 13. I am a male. HELP!!!!
SO BASICALLY:
How do I get a girlfriend?
2006-09-28 01:57:16 · 11 answers · asked by Alberto Inestine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok coolitz it takes me an hour to do everything that's my school work home work and studying all in one!!!
2006-09-28 02:08:41 · update #1
well your right about that peggy i
ha yeah :)
2006-09-28 02:10:10 · update #2
well your right about that peggy i
ha yeah :)
2006-09-28 02:10:24 · update #3
be patient.. the right girl will come along.
2006-09-28 02:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to join some kind of social group other than church. Pursue your interests. Maybe do volunteer work.
Meanwhile make friends with the girl from church. Don't worry about becoming her bf right away. If you did start dating and then broke up you would have more experience in the world and be better prepared for your next relationship. At least you will have a friend of the opposite sex.
2006-09-28 02:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet people.
There's no guarantee you would break up with this girl at your church, so ask her out.
If you're out somewhere and see a girl that interests you, try talking to her.
I'm sure you go out sometimes, unless you're at home all the time and leave only to go to church, in which case you have other issues.
Try joining a team of some sort, or attending a youth meeting at the church, or some kind of multi-church event where different youth groups hook up together to hang out and stuff.
Or, suck it up and wait a while. 13 is still very young to be worried about this sort of thing.
2006-09-28 02:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? you are weird!! you say you like someone in your church. but you are worried that you will eventually break up. so why are you still looking for a girlfriend from other places? you will just also break up with her.
you are only 13, why the rush? are you going to die if you don't get a girlfriend soon? why don't you focus on studying first?
2006-09-28 02:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you want the world to change to meet your expectations. Twice you said "waste of time". Instead of feeling like it is a "waste of time" open your eyes and mind up to the pssibility that there are things out there you just might like. Including girls you would meet while "wasting your time".
2006-09-28 02:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gary E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only meet people if you go out and explore, why don't you like to go to a regular school? you could meet lots of people there and probably a girlfriend, you definitely won't get a gf by staying home.
2006-09-28 02:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real way to get a girlfriend... Treat women with respect and show them you care for them... by doing nice things. In time you will get a girlfriend...whether it last a few months, few years, or a life time you will never know... What is ment to be is ment to be!
2006-09-28 02:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age, you will have several girlfriends as you move through adolescence, take your time and enjoy them one at a time or join a social group like a bowling team
2006-09-28 02:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the park, mall, YMCA, skating, the movies, neighborhood parties,
2006-09-28 02:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, make friends and you will meet some girl!
2006-09-28 02:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋