I am married. But the question is, Is it possible to fall in love with someone online that you have been talkin to for a while and never met in person? Having marriage problems as well..some of u may know what I am talkin about with my last few questions! But is it really possible to fall in love with someone you dont really know?
2006-09-28 01:55:54 · 8 answers · asked by boobear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it is possible but if your love isnt strong enough for your husband. if it is not then yes it is very much possible.
2006-09-28 02:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by MJS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible to fall in love with the "feel goods." The fact that you can be online all night, get minutes of sleep, get up the next morning and feel great. All you want to do is play the conversations that you have had over and over in your mind.
You are falling in love with a fantasy, it is not real life. Your marriage is real life, it comes with the day to day. At one time, before you got married, you had the same feelings about your partner. The excitement about finding out new things and having them mean something to you. It is those "new" things that draw you to a person you are just getting to know. It is also those things that will drive you crazy many days, months, years, down the road.
The energy that you are spending on this online relationship, try it with your partner. Marriage takes work. You owe it to yourself, you owe it to your relationship. If you feel that you have tried in your marriage, then it might be time to move on.
Good luck
2006-09-28 09:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dr2B 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heck No. Get rid of your computer and focus on your marriage. You have an obligation to your marriage first and fore most. I know you may not be a bad person but this person on the internet is just what you have made them out in your head. After you've done your very best to fix your marriage and it still doesn't work can you give up and look for love else where.
2006-09-28 09:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't possible to fall in love with some you don't really know. It is call infatuation... Sounds to me that you aren't getting the attention you need at home so you go elsewhere and when you get the attention you feel that it is love. Don't confuse the two because they are both very different. You are having issues with your marriage, you need to fix those issues and not have the influence of someone else clouding your thoughts.
2006-09-28 09:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are falling in love with is an illusion that you have created. People on-line tend to say things and make themselves out to be completely different than they are in reality. It is easy to say the right things when there is no chance of rejection. I would stay away from the computer for awhile and work on my marriage, if I were you. Maybe you can't save it; but you aren't even trying and you are being unfair. If you aren't interested in remaining married, than file for divorce and them pursue your "dream man". Good Luck! â¥
2006-09-28 09:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by working mom of 3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, But you shouldn't be talking to any men about relationship things until your single!!
It's a non-physical type of cheating...STOP!!!
2006-09-28 09:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is called virtual love.
is as illusary as a dream.
shucks.
2006-09-28 09:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure, anything is possible. just make sure it isnt lust, or infactuation. follow your heart.
2006-09-28 09:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋