2006-09-28 01:50:05 · 27 answers · asked by DENNIS B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the excitement of the fresh and the new....
courting (in old terms) - the excitement of knowing you are going to see someone, the skipped heartbeat, the flush of blood...this fades over time...it changes into something else, not necessarily worse, but something else...lust beocmes love
2006-09-28 01:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in an honest relationship you wouldn't consider having a fling if the honest relationship is good enough.
Obviously there is problems with the honest relationship are causing discontentment and there no effort to make it exciting, deeply loving and affair free. A lot of the emotional contentment and attachment can be gone and that's why an affair or fling can become so powerful.
Not every relationship is meant to last and affairs and flings are one way of letting you know this, and usually there is other signs that the relationship is drifting apart even before a fling or affair happens. It is then of course up to you to decide to either stay in the relationship and do your best to make the principle relationship work or leave it. A fling or an affair is only as powerful as it can be, its the two people involved that makes it what it is. Only you can let your heart be our guide.
2006-09-29 09:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships require alot of work and time!!!!!!! Fling is just a quick shot and away again, no working at it, no resolving any problems!!!!! So i suppose you can say the fling is the easier option!!!
Wouldn't reccomend as the grass always looks greener on the other side, but when you get to the other side there is generally a big fence put up and you can't get back, and when that greener grass goes brown you have nothing and no-one and you can't go back to the "now" greener grass on the other side!!!!
2006-09-28 01:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is your experience. Not everyone feels that way. So only you can answer the question. Could be you crave excitement, fear commitment- any number of things. Hopefully one of your flings will turn into an honest relationship. good luck.
2006-09-28 01:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by peggy j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A fling has no ties, no responsibilities, and no expectations. It's exciting and there's nothing routine about it; however you do miss out on the fun of really getting to know someone.
2006-10-01 03:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by shancelt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause it's more exciting.
Like, (stupid example)
A fling is like Angelina Jolie, so seductive/ while an honest relationship is like Jennifer Aniston, nice and comfortable. You know Jennifer Aniston would be with you no matter what, but you're still gonna have a fling with Angelina Jolie, even though you know she's gonna dump your ***.
2006-09-28 02:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most who have a fling i think its the chase the ,passion and dang the known that its a fling,many people do and regret but do over and over agian
2006-09-28 01:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its exciting and differnt, some one new
u get bored in a relationship, u know what that person is like, in a fling u aint got a clue!!! what a rush
2006-09-28 01:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the excitement of it all. Whats more fun making out with the same ole same ole,or driving down a dirt road or checking in a hotel under another name like Mr. & Mrs. when thats not your wife/husband. For me its the pure excitement
2006-09-28 01:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
coz you think you're a cool person doing it?and a fling has their ways to get you around them.in other words they just can't stand loyalty
2006-09-28 01:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋