You meet someone,
They change you,
Then they leave you because your not the person they first met..
Women, Please dont give me grief on this one it was my dads saying.. RIP Dad x (Also in wrong catogory)
2006-09-28 01:41:28 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
No I think that maybe he just had a bad experience with someone and was left a little bitter towards it. Are your parents divorced?
2006-09-28 01:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What your dad said is at least partially right. When you meet someone, even if it is only briefly, you are changed. Your whole live now takes a different path than if you hadn't met them in the first place. Your dad however was under the the impression that the person you met, did not like the change that they started. That isn't necessarily true. If it were, then you would never know anyone for any length of time at all, however in another way it is true because not only is your life changed so is theirs. This means that neither of the original ppl are still there, so I guess you could say they both left.
2006-09-28 02:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple fact of the matter is, we are all changing, and it's not necessarily because of a person we met. It's a lot of things. The person I am today is not the same person I was 10 years ago; the person I was 10 years ago was completely different from the person I was 20 years ago. As we age and mature, some things that were important to us don't matter as much; while things that used to bore us may now interest us. If a couple can recognize this characteristic in each other, then they just may change together and actually like the people they are becoming, making them want to stay together.
2006-09-28 01:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by digitalquirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there Steve. Awwwwwwwwww sounds like your poor old dad had a hard time with those women folk?? I would say your dad is 50% 50% with his quote. All depends on who you meet. One thing i do believe is that some people stay together for years and years, then realise they never should have stayed together for soooooooooo long. We all change as we get older and its quite rare to meet a person who changes and adapts the same as you as the years go on...
2006-09-28 01:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ã?â?¥Ã?ÄPixie Queen~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some situations, yes. But it's only a quote, and very few people live by them. I don't. My fiance is not the person I met, when I met him. I'm not leaving him. I know him too well, and I don't want to deal with someone else , because the next person could be worse, abusive, horrible, unsatisfying and he is none of those things. Therefore, I am not taking a risk, the next situation could be worse.
2006-09-28 01:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is the only thing that is constant and we tend to over look it always... with time two individuals that have come together change with the different situations they face and the people they meet thus causing a relationship to change in time...
i think this quote is true..
2006-09-28 01:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Laughing, well I won't give you any grief ...but I'll answer it with another quote..from a very good friend of mine..."Life is change,without change you do not evolve and with out evolution you die,....Ask the dinosaurs..Oops..you can't...They're Dead." ~ Evlcritter~
As to weather your dad's quote is true...hummmm...well, I think that every one you meet and every experience changes you...the key is to grow from it, and you and your signific other work to embrace the changes and adjust to them and not just leave each other.
2006-09-28 02:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be true for the materialists but when the real, pure, spiritualists change somebody that change is that one becomes a saint with an angel like good qualities who sees all the creatures equally, he/she is nonviolent to them, is compassionate merciful etc. Who would like to leave such a wonderful person? It is said that even the miscreants and rogues are attracted to him and even they become better.
Chant Hare Krishna and be happy.
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2006-09-28 01:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nitai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Woman........... I agree it happens a lot. The thing to do is inform the person in the beginning that you can not be changed and stick to it. Everyone must sacrifice small things for a relationship to work out.You are born YOU and will die YOU!!! Grow with each other do not change each other.
PS don't get lazy with time............ that's usually why woman say men change.
Love and inspire ea. other!!!
Happy Hunting
2006-09-28 01:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by ibkiah1978@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats true i met this guy and he was so in love with me well then he asked me out he said i was alwas haveing fun no matter who with now he's mad becuse i want to not worrie about stuff and just have fun and talk to people he didn't like that so i just didn't do it and now i'm not the same fun person i'm boring i wish i could meet a guy who just wanted to be friends for a bit not date me so fast.
harrys_white_owl@yahoo.com
2006-09-28 01:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely makes sense, but it all depends on whether you changed for the better or worse. Then you can see if the person who leaves you can be justified. Most likely if you are a strong minded individual you make changes for the better yourself and avoid other peoples influences.
2006-09-28 01:45:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋