Why do I keep going back to him? Why do I not just walk away? He hasn't talked to me in over a week this time. As all my friends say he will be back..he always comes back to you..lol...someone just now said that to me about him. I know that I need to just let him go but why do I feel like I am losing my best friend here. It just hurts so much...to think that I have lost him forever. I don't know if I can do this...life without him. HELP!!
2006-09-28 01:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by JOS'S MOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You lived before without him, so you can do it. Love isn't selfish- I would have to say that your love is immature at this point; you love him because you need him. It seems as though you are in love with the idea of him, and you need to open your eyes and see that he really doesn't treat you like you deserve- you aren't a drive through to which he can constantly come back for more, if he won't have some consideration for your feelings, then do yourself a favor and move along.
2006-09-28 01:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't be bothered yo talk to you, then why worry yourself with him. Life is too short to spend your time chasing your tail. You should try to find something to do to keep yourself busy. Alot of people tend to think their special someone is their best friend and this is because they really are. You spend almost all your time with them and share everything with them. That bond is hard to break but people all over the world do it everyday and so can you. Don't let someone have enough control over you to where you feel like you can't live without them. If you were to lose everything in your life you would realize you can live without almost anything and anyone. Don't go running into the arms of another, have more respect for yourself than that. Find out what you want and take it for a ride. Good-luck!
2006-09-28 08:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Fuel632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have low self esteem....I'm sorry for you... but if he doesn't talk to you for a week at a time....what kind of message are you getting from that? That you're not important to him or that he doesn't care for you? Nobody should ever let another person make them feel that way. People will only do what you allow them to do....be strong and start over...this relationship will just destroy you and you'll lose who you really are.....you deserve to be loved by someone that respects you. Good luck honey...please don't think I'm mean...I'm older, so I've been through these things before. Love yourself.
2006-09-28 08:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by jealous of the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back? After the first time you should have told him seeya! Than let him see what he missed out on. It's meant to be, don't let the guy you are meant to be with get away while you are sobbing over the one that leaves all the time!Gain some confidence, get out there, and have some fun! The hurt will go away really fast!
2006-09-28 08:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it impossible for him to come back to you. And yes, you can do this. Be strong, be firm. If he hasn't talked to you in over a week, that is a good sign that you are moving in the right direction - away from him.
2006-09-28 08:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a funny thing tha the brain does.
You need oprah/some kinda intervention/life coach/smack in the face.
Move on already its obvious youre miserable.
2006-09-28 08:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by im a princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl i feel you !! listen you deserve a guy who loves you and want to treat you good ! who cares about your feelings and respects you i know right know it hurts and all you want is him but theres another problem here and that is loving your self maybe you can focus more on you make you a happy person ! any way good luck !!
2006-09-28 08:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to greive, but don't be destructive. Spend time with someone who deserves your love and attention - like you!
Occupy yourself with friends and self-pampering. Don't stay at home and mope - otherwise, how else will your next great love fine you!!
2006-09-28 08:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All your REALLY saying is that you love him. At least your now realizing he is not healthy for you and that you must move on. Next step is a big one. Good luck.
2006-09-28 08:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say you love him or you really, really care about him.ya'll been together so long that your used to it but, you don't want it like that. you just like ashanti in foolish. because you don't know what else to do.just try to move on and see how it is and see if you like that.if not go bac to him.
2006-09-28 08:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Young Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋