If you were married with a guy and had a child with him... than when he was a way on a business trip, one thing let to another with a friend and you guys had sex in the heat of the moment. You both decided to pretent that it never happened/ Now your husband comes back and later you find out you are pregnant. what would you do? do you pretend that it is your child's kid even though you are not too sure? or do you tell him the truth even though it will ruin your marriage regardless of who turns out to be the dad?
2006-09-28 00:50:01 · 13 answers · asked by vandetta00 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would tell the truth DEFINITELY. A child deserves to know who their real father is and the husband deserves to know if the child is his or not. The woman in question should have used her head instead of her hormones. If her marriage was that great she would not have cheated in the first place. Deception is very wrong. There are consequences for everything we do........I firmly believe that. She should be woman enough to accept them.
2006-09-28 00:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I woulda told him before I found out I was pregnant. That's a stank thing to do, there is no 'heat of the moment'[ excuse that makes being unfaithful acceptable. At that point, everyone in the situation will be hurt except for the 'friend' he/she slept with who gets to walk away with only the memories of that heat filled moment. Including the unorn child and the exsisting child who are totally innocent bystanders about to be put through a world of drama b/c one person can't be patient... ugh!
2006-09-28 03:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,hellova scenario...tricky too...Honestly I'd have to say I'd never get myself in that situation so I don't know what i would do but since its pretend ..I'd likely tell my Hubby its not his child (if I have had a DNA done & know for sure),The fact that I opted to cheat means the relationship is on the skids anyway,so why expose an innocent child to a loveless family?The child deserves better than that & I would give them the best of the best..
2006-09-28 00:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth, because there is another life involved now the (baby) on the way. Come clean and deal with the consequences.
2006-09-28 01:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by khanye22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hypothetically speaking, I would tell the truth. If I am bold enough to lay down with someone else, I would be bold enough to tell the truth. I wouldn't want it to come out later by someone else.
2006-09-28 00:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix Rising 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll first go for an amnio test to determine who the dad is and then I'll tell the truth.
2006-09-28 01:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by waterbabe23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the truth,I wouldn't be able to live with that.Plus I do not believe in abortion unless a woman has been raped.
2006-09-28 01:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth shall set you free.
2006-09-28 06:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by kimmys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth, it all comes out in the wash and I want to be the one doing the agitating.
2006-09-28 06:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am actually stumpped on this one. First off , I am not a cheater, so it would have never happened in the first place. What a terrible situation. Who knows????
2006-09-28 03:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Boo Boo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋