If I had a girl and she told me that she could not come over like she always does, and when I called her the next day after she got off work, she did not pick up the phone for 3 hours. when she called me back her excuse was because she left it in the car. am I justified in being upset?
2006-09-28 00:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by vandetta00 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Not exactly justified per se, but it's understandable.
If it's the first time it's happened you might want to step back and think yeah I'm upset but she could have left it in the car, and move away from it.
It easy to get upset, it isn't always right but it is how you feel and you shouldn't ever deny it. Just try to understand it.
2006-09-28 01:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by QueenieHB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is how you feel then yes, becoming upset is okay but it
won't solve anything. Perhaps if you were to come right out and ask if the relationship is over you will get some straight
answers. Sounds like your girlfriend is trying to put some distance between you so she can finally break up with you.
Don't ask any questions unless you are ready for the answers.
2006-09-28 00:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she not got a land line? I wonder what excuse she would have given you for not picking that up. Give her the benefit of the doubt, but if this becomes a regular occurrence then personally I would move on. I hope you don't have to, Good luck. xx
2006-09-28 00:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lyn I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...you know sometimes, misunderstandings just happen and as silly as they may seem, they could still be true..so just tell her how she´s making you feel and ask her about the whole thing. You said she always comes over.. it sounds like you guys are pretty close...so give her the benefit of the doubt..at least until you find out the truth, whatever that may be. Hope everything goes well for you. :)
2006-09-28 00:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jaded 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get so upset about it. Things happen that we can't get away from. If she had things to do then there is no problem. If you feel like she is blowing you off then I suggest you move on to someone else. Don't sweat the small stuff honey.
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2016-12-06 07:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any small, minute, teeny, eenie chance that she really couldn't come over because she actually had something to do or that she really left her phone in the car? You have to have trust until you can prove otherwise.
2006-09-28 00:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix Rising 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. What are you, some kind of controlling stalker type. Get over it.
2006-09-28 01:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by rockerchick82 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it happens. If it continues to happen all the time, then I would be concerned that something was going on.
2006-09-28 06:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happens all the time, maybe. If it happened once, chill out.
2006-09-28 00:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋