Love, like truth and beauty, is concrete. Love is not fundamentally a sweet feeling; not, at heart, a matter of sentiment, attachment, or being "drawn toward." Love is active, effective, a matter of making reciprocal and mutually beneficial relation with one's friends and enemies.
Love creates righteousness, or justice, here on earth. To make love is to make justice. As advocates and activists for justice know, loving involves struggle, resistance, risk. People working today on behalf of women, blacks, lesbians and gay men, the aging, the poor in this country and elsewhere know that making justice is not a warm, fuzzy experience. I think also that sexual lovers and good friends know that the most compelling relationships demand hard work, patience, and a willingness to endure tensions and anxiety in creating mutually empowering bonds.
For this reason loving involves commitment. We are not automatic lovers of self, others, world, or God. Love does not just happen. We are not love machines, puppets on the strings of a deity called "love." Love is a choice -- not simply, or necessarily, a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to others without pretense or guile. Love is a conversion to humanity -- a willingness to participate with others in the healing of a broken world and broken lives. Love is the choice to experience life as a member of the human family, a partner in the dance of life, rather than as an alien in the world or as a deity above the world, aloof and apart from human flesh.
2006-09-28 00:08:56
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answered by Mario E 5
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Love is honoring and respecting someone. It means you want the best for someone even if it costs you big time. You gladly pay the price, even with joy in your heart.
2006-09-30 09:24:18
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answered by delmaanna67 5
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To be able to do the best things for your beloved without any expectations.Be always besides when you are most needed by their side in their times of turmoil again without any expectations.
2006-09-28 07:46:46
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answered by Richard J 6
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i believe true love is being able to see yourself at the age of ninety, looking at your partner and nowing you maded the right choice
2006-09-28 00:20:41
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answered by jane_sutherland1966 2
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love is a chemical reaction
2006-09-28 00:14:44
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answered by happy_84 k 4
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a feeling that you show to others.. may it be close relatives, friends, or maybe even strangers...it has varying intensities
2006-10-01 06:27:55
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answered by shanthicharuvil 3
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um, complected. and also it makes ur life more complected and hard but not always though.
2006-09-28 00:19:07
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answered by lujufe 2
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What do you mean by this question?
2006-10-01 04:02:09
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answered by RS 4
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