I've been seeing this girl for just over 2 yrs. 1st we were friends, but she knew I liked her. Over the yrs, she has became closer to me. Sometimes she holds my arms. Recently she kissed me on my lips, we usually only kissed each other on the cheeks. But last week when I tried to kiss her she backed off & giggled. I asked her if she loves me, she told me not enough to get married but considered me as her bf since we've been together so long. Is she just playing me. BTW, she is 2 yrs older than I. She also told me I have good qualities and didn't just take a diamond ring I got for her, but told me to keep it & she'll indicate to me hen the time is right. Should I keep seeing her? I really love her.
2006-09-27 23:58:41 · 8 answers · asked by Mister C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She justed wanted to be sure if you love her, just give her time to appreciate what she is missing in ur arms and what you can give so dnt lose hope if she kissed u she loves . Age doesnt matter what u give each is all that matters. Relax dnt be in a hurry gd luck.
2006-09-28 00:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by judy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like bad news to me. Best way to find out what the score is is to back off a bit. At the moment, she has the upper hand because she knows you love her. She's the one dictating the terms of the relationship and basically has you in the palm of her hand. You need to make sure she doesn't take you for granted - don't always be available, don't always do what she says. Otherwise, she's just going to see you as a kind of fall back option (i.e. she's only going out with you because there's nobody else around). I'm not saying she's manipulating you on purpose, but you are in a weak position here and you need to turn that around. This course of action might lead to you breaking up, but it's better than just being strung along until she finds someone else, and you'll feel better about yourself if you act like a man! Good luck...
2006-09-28 07:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by hosmer_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,of course since you guys been really liked/loved each other
2006-09-28 07:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you have any self respect, Yes because it is obvious you are desperate and will probably not get another.
2006-09-28 07:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. I think she should either tell you, or not if she is ready. She should not string you along. What does your heart tell you to do/ Follow your heart.
2006-09-28 07:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i dont know how old you are. If you are pretty young, she may be right. maybe wait a while before doing anything too serious.
2006-09-28 07:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by BMac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
2006-09-28 07:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by indike111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she is too immature just like you
2006-09-28 07:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋