im in a realationship with my 20yr old boy friend at the moment. my family moved away to france early on in the year. so i moved in with him. we are arguing so much because he dosnt give me any place. shall i finish it? and have no wer to live? duno what to do. really confusedim only 17
2006-09-27 23:43:21 · 19 answers · asked by whitters 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, could you go to france with family? 17 is quite young to be setting up home . If your'e not happy , Id consider going as what a great experience it would be for you, theres loads of time for you to settle down with someone in the future. If you cant make France , have you a girlfriend or other family you could live withfor a while so you can get yourself sorted.
2006-09-28 00:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by maximizingman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough 1. I Was In The Same Situation. Your 17. You Have A Lot To Look Forward To. If I Was You I Would Find A Job Work Then Leave Him. He Seems Like Some1 That Doesnt Want You To Do Much. Get A Job And Leave Him.....
You Wont Regret It, Then You Will Meet Some1 That Isnt Controlling And That Gives You That Much More Freedom.
Work Now And Play Later...Dont Thank Me ;)
2006-09-28 06:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shucks – seems like your boyfriend is taking advantage of your vulnerable position.
Its time to sit down, talk to him and resolve your differences. Not fight and make matters worse. He may have found someone else and is too chicken to let you know about it.
You seem to have already accepted the fact that you might want to leave everything and just go away; but are apprehensive because you don’t have a place to stay.
Go through the bulletin boards and newspapers and find yourself a part-time job. Make some money and get yourself some rented accommodation.
Come what may get a hold on yourself. You’re very young and have a long way to go in life. Also, life is more precious than these little obstacles which are part and parcel.
2006-09-28 06:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by cooldad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u not any other family around u? Or friends you could go stay with? I think maybe if you had ur own space u n him would get along a lot better and then u wudnt have 2finish it but if u carry on living with him it will ruin what u n him have & ull never b able to get back to the stage that u were at before!
Goodluck hun & do what ur hearts telling u 2do xxxxx
2006-09-28 06:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mean to use a Cliche- But you're far too young to make a Massive decision like living with someone!
You have the rest of your Life ahead of You!
Is this person the right person to be spending the rest of your Life with!??
Being Possessive towards another early-on in any Relationship is Normal-But You are Obviously Worth More than being treated like this!
Respect Yourself! and Your Future!
2006-09-28 06:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez at 17 you should be out there having alot of fun...not stuck in a rut with a boyfriend...if you can, contact your parents and ask them if theres a chance that you could come stay for a while, this will give you time to think about what you want, but i truly think that this is a bad situation for you, if he is not giving you peace...then leave and go to france....the men there are so romantic...
2006-09-28 06:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're smart enough to see that things will only get worse.
Wrack your brain, make the tough choices. There are other places to live.
2006-09-28 07:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either find your own job/place and see what happens, or move back to France !
2006-09-28 06:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by david g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him you shouldn't;t have any worries about boyfriends yet you need your own space so you can grow
the butterfly story hold it tight and it will want to escape let it free to roam and it will come back to you
2006-09-28 06:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by jodu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to France and start a new life with your folks
2006-09-28 06:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋