I am a guy. From the beginning i enter the school this year, i saw her. For me, she is perfect. We studied in the different class. N off course, she is better than me. We never talk to each other b4 n I am shy to talk to her.
I have a problem to talk to girls (less idea) maybe becos of my mom don't allow me to mix with friends after schooling or i am from a boy school last time.
Anyone here, guide me or teach me, how i should start a conversation???
2006-09-27 23:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by life0live 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Hello , my name is (Insert Name). I was wonder if you would like to go to (Insert Event) this (Insert date and time) with me. "
2006-09-27 23:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I know what you mean.... Lemme see. You just go and be direct: "Hello... my name is [ ] and I think I fall in love you. I'm sorry... I'm not good at this. I'm really shy and I'm afraid I'm making a fool out of myself. What I mean is that I think you are a really beatifull gal and I can only wish you could go out on a date with me" Just wait an anwer. DON'T be affraid of getting dumped. Man that's the most natural thing! If she says she has a bf, than make a joke out of it "Oh you could bring him too.. just kiding... oh well I tried... If you ever get tired of him, plz you can count on me" or if she starts wondering what kinda of a guy you are, just tell her that you think you are a nice guy and you would like very much to know her better. There's no easy way of expecting her to notice you and come to talk to you. Be you, it's natural that you might be a bit nervous, and she even might find it funny.
If she won't find you interesting or if she will ne rude, than my friend chances are she wouldn't be a nice gal for you to meet. Cheers and be happy! V.
2006-09-28 06:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by another911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. hello hi 1st.
2. discuss her hobbies and interests.
3. be presentable.
4. ask her out one day.
5. give a small rose or gift.
6. beginning of a journey.
2006-09-28 06:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for help with your homework if she is better at it than you. Follow your instincts, play it cool and don't act desperate. Just talk to her and let the conversation go where it will.
2006-09-28 06:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by rswdew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is not about how to start a conversation.
but how to have confidence.
but just try it...
just try to say anything.. like hello... how r u... or... maybe u need my help... :)
trust me, after u have just a little confidence to start it, AND START it, u will find out, it's not difficult as what u think. :)
2006-09-28 07:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....dont be shy...just go talk to her...and ask her for some help....and everyday u could go to her and tell her hi..but dont annoy her..within time..thing will work out !! :)
2006-09-28 06:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can guide you in this matter, you have to find the way out.
Have courage, my son.
2006-09-28 06:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her questions, even stupid ones they like that and think its funny most the time, girls like to talk about themselves so just start by asking "how the hell are you so smart?"
2006-09-28 06:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by foosless2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋