2006-09-27 22:56:50 · 8 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a really hard question to answer. But my friend is going through the same thing right now. And what I told her was that you can't stay with someone if you are unhappie because you are scared they will hurt themself. Just stay in their life be friends with them. And if you are sure they will hurt themself have someone that is with them 24/7 to keep an eye on them once you and him break up. Sorry I can't be of more help!
2006-09-27 23:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by BigBrownEyes906 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have been making threats, call 911 and get them committed. If it's just a feeling that you have and they haven't made statements like that, you need to talk to a professional and see if your fears are reasonable. Either way, you shouldn't stay with the person, at least not once there is someone there to look out for them. The other person's safety is not your responsibility and the best thing you can do is get them some real professional help.
2006-09-28 06:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That situation could go on indefinitely. You'd want to end the relationship at some point, right? Also, if the other person is aware that he/ she's doing it, it's emotional blackmail and pretty low.
2006-09-28 06:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by OMG, I ♥ PONIES!!1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a nice gesture but maybe not the right thing to do.
guide them towards finding some help then get on with your life.
2006-09-28 05:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by zippythewondermutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is no life. Get a good shrink and live your own life!
2006-09-28 05:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by bionicworm1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are old enough .. I think they are the responsible ones for their acts ... otherwise yes
2006-09-28 06:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Luay14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is definatly not good, you have 1 life to live.
2006-09-28 05:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a history self immolation yes and advisable as well.
2006-09-28 05:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋