I have big and long strtech marks all over my body, especially on my stomach. I used to be fat, but now that i've lost all the weight the stretch marks are still there and perhaps even more visible.
i wanted to know what women thought of strech marks on a 25 year old guy, does it freak you out? would you consider dating a guy with stretch marks all over his belly?
please tell the truth
2006-09-27 22:43:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My hubby has them on his sides, and he's only 24. Soooo no, it doesn't freak me out, and yes I would consider dating someone who has them. The right girl isn't even going to notice them- and if she does, she won't care. Don't worry, she's out there!
2006-09-27 22:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how would I know you had stretch marks on your belly before seeing it? Usually you would have to get to know the woman well, before she would see them, no? By that time, and if anything came of it, the stretch marks would be incidental. It seems like you are judging your worth by how you look. Women of any worth don't care so much about these things that you have no control over...your height and stretch marks, etcetera. I personally would not be freaked out.
2006-09-27 22:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by tama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my brother has never been fat and he's 28 now but has had stretch marks since he was 14 esp across front of his shoulders and chest. Personally they relly do not bother me at all and there's no remedy for them either despite advertising campaigns to the contrary.
2006-09-27 22:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by heleneaustin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wouldnt make a bit of difference! I have the same probelm - after losing a lot of weight, no man has ever recolied! (im female)! anyway I don't really like them but they are a reminder of what i achieved and they should be for you too - congrats on the weight loss btw! x
2006-09-27 23:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and No why should we be allowed to be judging you, when the minute a guy makes a remark regarding womans stretch marks it's a disaster, nasty and selfish!!!!!!!! Anyway people should love you for you, not for what you look like!!!!!!! Good Luck finding your ideal woman!! xx
2006-09-27 22:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what difference would it make? both men and women get stretch marks. would u date a woman with them? if anything, i find stretch marks sexy because it shows me that that person has done something good for themselves and u should be proud of them because u lost weight. if ur that worried, try using cocoa butter lotion. it helps 2 smooth them and make them less visible
2006-09-27 22:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by ANGIE T. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person wouldn't date you because of that, they are just shallow and don't deserve to be with someone. Best thing is to be upfront about your feelings and i'm sure the right person will understand. Well done on your weight loss.
2006-09-27 22:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mabye i should ask u ," would you consider dating a girl with stretch marks all over her tummy?" yr answer to this question will most likely to give u a rough idea what others think as well
2006-09-27 22:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any woman who complains about stretch marks needs serious help because we all have them! Co co butter honey! And I wouldn't care if you had strecth marks all over. I'm dating you not your stretch marks!
2006-09-27 22:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If i really love that guy, i dun mind. lucky the stretch marks is in your belly not your face, it is not a big problem. perhpas try to see doctor if he could make it disappear.
2006-09-27 22:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋