when we were growing up he was the meticulous one, very stingy and organised, in school i was very brilliant but frivorous, i loved parties and girls, he didn't, after school i went into biz, i took them all by surprise and started making money, my brother swallowed his pride and proposed to join the biz and become a patner, i accepted. we started making a lot of money together but because of our differences (i was extravagant while he was prudent) we couldn't go along together, and since he was older than me he wanted to be in charge, we had to split. I retained the biz and he moved off to setup elsewhere. Today, 7 yrs after we split i'll sincerely say that he is a better biz man that me, i have two very successful offices, he has 4. I have no prob with that, but recently in a family gathering we were discussing monetary issues and i tried to advice him, he shocked me by blurting out that he has noticed that i'm jealous of him and green with envy, this is not true, what should i do?
2006-09-27 22:41:49 · 3 answers · asked by rickybellanco 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Ignore it, he is envious of you and your life style. He has done everything by the book, but you succeeded first and that hurts. He is jealous for all that you have done, and he never did. You can't fix it, nor change it. Just let it go and wait for him to get over it, hopefully it will happen but you never know.
2006-09-27 22:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to convince him of shitt. You should know, deep down he is jealous and has been jealous of you, because he's looked at the whole thing like a competition. He probably just has so many offices and his main purpose is to have more than you, not for his own benefit.
If you really wanna fuuck with him, tell him he wouldn't be where he's at today if you didn't "let him work for you".
But on the other note its sad that you and your brother don't get along.
2006-09-28 10:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is 100 percent bs. imagine the idea of someone who is "brilliant and frivorous"(lol) starting a business, and being wildly successful, and then coming to cry about it on yahoo. total b.s.
put down the novel
2006-09-27 22:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by joelius24 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋