I just wanted to know what women thought a 25 year old guy that has no friends? Would you be put off going out with him?
Growing up i only had one friend, and when we were 17 he got sent to prison for doing some stupid stuff involving fraud. I never really visited him much when he was in jail, and he is kinda angry about it, so we kinda just stopped being friends.
he was my only real friend, and i don't have any other friends, i'm very independant and kind of a loner. A girl that I went out on a date with called me a wierdo because I dont have any frinds. Apparently she was was put off by it, and wondered how i managed to survive all these years without any friends.
I just wanted to know what other women think about a guy that doesn't have any friends, would you consider dating him?
2006-09-27 22:36:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wouldn't put me off - I've not really got any 'friends' just acquaintances. It would probably suit me better to be with someone without friends than someone with a really active social life - I tend to like to be with a guy and spend all my time with him!
2006-09-27 22:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I would find it kinda odd that you didn't have any friends and would wonder why but on the plus side boyfriends mates are usually a right pain in the bum and most girls dont ever get on with their boyfriends mates so some girls might think its a good thing!As long as they think your a nice bloke and the reason you havent got any friends isn't because your a horrible person then i cant imagine it would be a problem x
2006-09-28 05:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would be very wary of someone that doesn't have any friends,
you say that you are a loner, is this by choice?
There are plenty of hobbies/social groups, that you could join to make friends,
that's if you want to.
Is there something that you excel at, or maybe become a volunteer, charities
are always looking for help.
Before dating, try to find out the things that you would like to do, so next
time when you are out, your comfortable with who you are, whether you
have a stream of friends, or one or two good friends, that you know you
could trust and rely on.
Good luck,
Regards,
Lain.
2006-09-28 06:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by LAIN E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, friends are no indication of what kind of person you are. im also 25 and dont have any friends anymore i grew apart from them all, i am now a single mum so dont really go out so cant make new friends. i speak to people that i went to school with in the passing but thats it. it doesnt bother me in the slightest i am also a bit of a loner, but my sister is always telling me that i need to go out and get some friends etc but im not bothered so i dont see why it should be a big deal to other people!
2006-09-28 09:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an answer to your question though
I resemble you very closely - though I can relate to people at work. I know of many women who are the same way.
The fact that you are looking at dating as an activity sounds like you are just selective about friends and acquaintances.
The more you make attempts at tolerating ideas that are strange to you - the more you will open up and increase your chances - I believe.
2006-09-28 05:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by dont try 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can really relate to what you're saying. It wouldn't put me off at all. It doesn't make you a bad person.
I'm outgoing and friendly, but I consider myself to have only a couple of "close" friends. For reasons outwith my control, I've lost friends over the years. Also other friends settle down and have family, move away and therefore you become less close.
I certainly wouldn't judge someone on the number of friends they have.
2006-09-28 06:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a bit weird allright - I dont think it would put me off dating him if I liked him enough - but Id kinda find it strange.
Why dont you join a club or something and make friends there - you dont have to hang around with them constantly or anything - but just to be able to drop names into conversations with your date so you dont sound like such a loner
2006-09-28 05:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is kind of normal, a lot of men don't have close relationships to other men, at least it isn't anything like women and their friendships. The ones that have to have men friends around all the time, are not very committed to a relationship and family so I think she should be glad that she had you all to herself.. Keep looking you will find the one who appreciates you and in the mean time draw closer to God and he will bring the right one to you. Good luck!
2006-09-28 05:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well im not really into men, but it shouldnt matter if he does or not..its actually better for u not 2 have any friends because then, u can spend all of ur time with her and she wouldnt have 2 worry about u goin out with "the guys" and cheating on her
2006-09-28 05:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by ANGIE T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are assholes everywhere you go. You can't trust nobody. I had only a few friends, during life. Not because i wanted few friends, it was because people are mean and low lifes. I hate mean people. I also was ostracized for being heterosexual and disgusted by fags and bisexuals.
2006-09-28 05:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋