It is my personal opinion that to understand sex better and to enjoy it to the fullest you should have sex with different persons, however with precautions and you should let your partner know this. I also suppose that swapping is not a bad idea if it is done in a same room. But the question here is about trust and being honest to every ones personal relationships. So total puzzle. I expect some good answers. Please be serious. (I'm virgin and single). Don't want to go for it unless I understand the fact). Thank you :)
2006-09-27 22:06:34 · 12 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question.
I will speak from personal experience. I agree with you. As long as you are careful and responsible, having sex with multiple partners is the best way to get better at it. Although people have different spots and what not, it is good to roam around and see what they are. Practice makes perfect. I am trying to convince my husband to be a swinger. I love sex and have had many sexual experiences and I think it is quite natural and healthy. I would suggest reading up aon the art of sex. It can be quite entertaining and educational!
2006-09-27 22:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be true but trust me I've been around the block more than I care to admit. Love is the deciding factor in sex, sex isn't delicious without passion, love brings passion. You'll eventually get tired of jumping from person to person. I did it's ok to experiment and experience sex from multiple people you;ll learn what's right for you. just make sure that the people you share your bed with know that it isn't a relationship, many people have sex to gain the relationship. Many people automatically assume through the act that you will be with them and want to be with them. Be careful always used protection and always look at their body for suspscious cut's and sores, or rashes this is important. Experience but be safe about it. DOn't feel ashamed of needing to explore this way either. Have fun while your young cause youth does not last.
2006-09-27 22:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex with different gals isn't going to make any difference, just that you will increase your chances of getting terrible diseases like HIV. Why risk?
Eating different fruits however doesn't give you terrible diseases unless the fruits are poisonous.
If you want a serious answer, sex is best to have with the one you truely love. Definately never the case with multiple partners.
2006-09-27 22:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are completely wrong about this, seeing as you are a virgin certain information about woman and sex will only be knowledgeable to you once you have "done the deed"! Sleeping with many woman is not only harmful to yourself physically(AIDS IS A REALITY) but is also degrading! Ask yourself this question, when you marry you would most likely want your wife to have slept with as few men as possible? So then try refrain from sleeping with woman as much as you change your fruit! Enjoy the first time and experiment with one!
2006-09-27 22:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ms innocent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell us your current relationship. If your single it's a different story. If your dating still another. And if your married it changes again. All is equal if your other half is understanding and committed to you. If you love and trust each other you still may have problems but will get it out of your system. Whatever you do don't go behind the others back and hurt them.
2006-09-27 22:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by bionicworm1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have sex with lots of people then you'll find out what amazing sex is yes but if The One comes along and turns out to be just great then you'll always be looking for amazing and your partner will always feel left behind and unfulfilled, then you'll have a higher chance of cheating on your partner which will cause a divorce which will cause you to lose The One which will lead to depression and death....moral:sleeping with lots of people is bad and I haven't even mentioned the stds yet, nor awkward situations.
2006-09-27 22:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ! you cannot say that, we are humans not fruits. I can tell you there is a very, very big difference in having "sex" with your loved one than those loose women. You also have to be fair to the women, put yourself in their shoes and how you feel ?
2006-09-28 02:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 11:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were the 1970's I'd say yes,however its 2006 the era of aids/hiv,std's,etc
2006-09-27 22:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y dont u go to a brothel, if u wana have fun
2006-09-27 22:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Alayena K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋