Me and my ex broke up in april of this year...went our seperate ways and she found someone else before I did...I never got over her while she got over me almost completely....she doesnt have a bf anymore but Im still very much attracted to her and want her back....but she has no feelings for me...just physical attraction...She says she wont date me anytime soon but doesnt leave out the possiblity of us dating again....What can I do to have her like me again? Is it possible? Will it all happen in time? I hate this...I can just feel her finding someone else again and me being in pain...shes a huge part of my life and I cant just cut her out....any advice?
2006-09-27 22:01:32 · 15 answers · asked by A Sad Guy... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-27 22:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, this is DEAD. Accept it. Move on in your life. Sad fact of life you must learn - women do not have the same depth of feeling and lasting love that men do. They can move on in a matter of days or weeks, whereas it can take men months or YEARS. That's just the way it is. She just has far more options than you. That's an unavoidable fact of life. Anyway, for you to have any chance of getting her back, you need to go out with other women. Let her see that you are not a wuss and are moving on. Then she might start to get jealous and try and get you back. But while she knows you're pining for her she will just push you further away. Do not accept phone calls from her. do not go over and see her when she's upset. Tell her you're too busy, and make sure it's TRUE. She doesn't get the your emotional support if she's not putting out. Sorry dude, but you need to toughen up.
2006-09-27 22:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by The Golden Child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad is definetly the word grow some balls man! Stop being so needy that's not manly at all! I'm not telling you to get someone else to parade around in front of her but you have to have her get the message in her head that you still do want her but have also sucessfully moved on as well(not gonna even be close to easy the way it sounds like you have given up already "i can just feel her finding someone else" boy you just wanna kick yourself when your down with that statement self fufilling misery is what your asking for. I'm sorry if i hurt your feelings from saying those things but you gotta open your eyes!
2006-09-27 22:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look desperate to her. Maybe she thinks she can always have you,so she's going to keep you on the backburner while she has fun,and when she's done,she'll come back to you..because she thinks you'll always be there. Let her know that you won't always be there. That one day you'll be gone. Move on with YOUR life and try to find someone new. Who knows,maybe someone new will show you that you didn't really care about that other person like you did,OR she'll see you with someone else and realize that she does love you.
2006-09-27 22:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by sunkissedflgal21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine screwed up and I walked out. Felt that I had made a mistake and started feeling like I could go back. Then I realised, going back is foolish, she'll still screw up some more. I've quit completely. Wont mind a lay if I get it, because she wants me back, but I won't go back.
Yours doen't want you back, she won't take you back. Leave her alone, avoid seeing her, get her out of your mind and move on. If I could move on after mine, everyone can. I loved her more than myself.
2006-09-27 22:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Stingray B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you felt without her. Make her feel noticed. Doing something she like or get her something she like. If you can touches a gals heart you have a higher chances of winning her back.
2006-09-27 22:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time heal, try and get over her and look around, see if there are any attractive girls around that could distract you from her, if it's only physical it will ALWAYS end in pain.
2006-09-27 22:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feels just a physical attraction for u not soul attraction its useless.
but try.......who knows
i always think a woman can be concured
just find the right key
it is important also what u expect from her, what kind of attraction u need from her. if its enough for u physical one, its ok
2006-09-27 22:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by notme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y r u behind dat gal, go around wit some one else. she will get jealous n shell b back
2006-09-27 22:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Alayena K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat out her bumhole 2 time 2 time
2006-09-27 22:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your EX for a reason. Move on!
2006-09-27 22:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋