If you broke up with your serious girlfriend (after a strong year relationship) b/c she moved away for school and she told you that she needed space and time for herself right now (you were friends w/ benefits for a year after you broke it off but it finally got to her) but that she wanted to be friends in the near future. would you ever call her again? keep in mind that she said she still had emotional feelings for you..she just needed some time b/c she was going emotionally crazy b/c you wouldn't commit b/c of the long distance and she is 7 years younger and at college. keep in mind..you have called her every 2 weeks for the past year and a half since you broke up w.her.
2006-09-27 21:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-27 21:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by dflp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of these guys on here i just do not understand. When it's over it's over. Move on. Don't hang around like a little puppy dog. Go find another. When a woman tells you she needs space' Give it to her. Nether 1 of you has a ring in the others nose. When a woman says that to a man that means in a nice way she is done with you. Take the hint and move one
2006-09-28 04:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you've got to ask yourself before you do this is: Do I love her? If you do, then go for it, and try and make things different. Committ to her (I assume from your post that you were non committal in the past?)
If however, you don't really love her, and are driven by loneliness/insecurity, then let it be.
If however, she has been the one with the committment issues, then also let it be. Coz if she was uncommitted even when you showed committnment it will be unlikely that she will change no matter what you do...
Good luck buddy. PS: I'm in a similar situation....So I know what you must feel..
2006-09-28 04:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by gio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I ever call her? Unless she asked me not to, I probably would.
Would I call every two weeks? NO WAY! If she doesn't want a relationship with me, then calling that often would just mess her up. If she wants to move on, give her the time and space to move on.
2006-09-28 04:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-09-28 04:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chad M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a space, but if you really want to win her back, be consistent but not persistent
2006-09-28 04:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by tikla79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much time do you have to waste??? Move on already.
2006-09-28 04:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would just to see how shes doing.
2006-09-28 04:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her really,you should do and wait.
2006-09-28 04:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by three cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I will always look after her...but if I feel that I am not welcome I will disappear
2006-09-28 04:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by wsola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋