I have a gf who is 17 and she has a bro of about 13 and they're really close and very much like lovers or friends sometimes when you see the way they behave...but in my case i see that in a different way as she constantly touches and tickles him and in return he does it for her and they play and make hell at home on the bed and while togther anywhere...and these things really makes me sometimes really jealous abouth them and i dont know whether it's natural for me to be jealous or for them to behave in that way. When im at my house i always am obsessed about this and wonder what they'd be doing at home all alone...and sometimes i suspect incest too as their closeness cannot be explained as they're really close...I have siblings too and i have close relations with them but not soooo touchy feely like this..pls advise whether to get involed and solve the problem but not spoil the relationship that i have with her..tks.n rgds...bye..
2006-09-27 20:58:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some families are much more touchy-feely than others. That doesn't mean there's anything sexual going on. You just need to get used to it and accept it.
In my opinion, you're way out of line when you bring up words like 'incest'. If you mention this to your girlfriend, she'll tell you you're being ridiculous - and she's not likely to change. For one thing, the habits of a lifetime aren't easily changed. For another, boyfriends come and go, but her brother will be her brother for the rest of her life.
I think it's wonderful that the two of them are close. It's much better than having siblings hate each other.
2006-09-27 21:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a normal emotion but what you are jealous about is not. That is her brother and some siblings are close like that. I'm wondering how old you are? You are the only one who see's this as a problem. This is your girl friend not your property DO NOT force her into choosing between you and her brother. That would be wrong. It sounds to me that you have a decision to make if their relationship makes you feel uncomfortable
2006-09-27 21:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're really a fifty year old dude with incest issues and this is your way of fantasizing. Shenanigans!! I call Shenanigans!!
2006-09-27 21:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're jealous of the attention she pays to him rather than the touchiness?
2006-09-27 21:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sydney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason for u to be jealous of ur gf's younger bro. its quite silly if u ask me. come on they r siblings. me and my bro r extremely close too.
2006-09-27 21:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's doing her little brother dump her thats nasty my sis is 3 years older than me we were fighting at that age not tickling each other. find some1 who isnt incest, for me
2006-09-27 21:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron m420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's all in your mind but if it bothers you that much tell her how you feel but pay attention to her reactions (face and body motions). good luck!
2006-09-27 21:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone,, youre definitely not mature enough to be in a relationship,, dont waste her time
2006-09-27 21:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't beat them join them.
2006-09-27 21:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by anobangtanong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you find it odd. Not that she is odd or that they are wrong, just that you find it odd.
2006-09-27 21:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋