I would say my girlfriend is really attractive and she would turn heads everytime we go out. The thing is there are so many guys that are after her even we are still together, some of them even go extra miles. How do I keep her faithful to me? Should I try to keep ahead of the competition? or just relax and be myself??
2006-09-27 20:55:28 · 31 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself, because if she is the type of person who has no loyalty and just looks for the 'better model' then you really deserve better then her anyways. I know you might not feel that way, cause you got a great thing right now, but her sexiness will fade away over the years and her personality will stay. Plus trying to be macho or whatever could be a turn-off.
2006-09-27 20:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by greenguy415 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it in terms of keeping her faithful to you. Trying to put a coercive grip on the relationship will push her away from you. The only thing you can do is keep in mind that you already have the girl. If she chooses to break up with you or cheat on you, then that is her choice. But you will have been the bigger man. Don't try to control her; that's exactly how you'll wind up losing her. Just relax and take it one day at a time.
2006-09-27 20:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is keep her a little jealous at all times.
Make sure she believes you can leave her for another girl at the drop of a hat.
As long as she thinks she doesn't completely have you, she will keep fighting for all of you, and the other guys throwing themselves at her won't matter.
It may be too late, but do not let her know you are worried about losing her.
2006-09-27 21:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself ,you can only be proud , she could have any guy she wants but she has chosen you because you are yourself and not another one , if you'll change and start playing the jealous guy card you['ll only annoy her and make her nervous , she will not more feel good with you and only then she will start looking for another one who will be enough sure about himself to not be afraid of any other men hungry eyes pointed over her.
2006-09-27 21:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and be yourself. Don't worry if she's going to be faithful, because if she isn't that means she wasn't worth it to begin with if you're serious about it. On the other hand if you're just in it for the goods and want to be able to get the goods as long as you can than you may have reason to worry
2006-09-27 20:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by John N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away for a few days see if she comes after you, if so then know she is into you and not anyone else, and trust is very important in a relationship, dont doubt her unless you have caught her being unfaithful
ooh be yourself coz thats what she fell for if you change you will risk loosing her!!
confidence is very attractive in all that keep your cool and act like you are very sure of yourself she will admire that even more and with time you will no longer need to act coz you will be confident
2006-09-27 21:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo need to relax and see how she handles herself. if she is into you then the other guys can do anything they want to and they still won't get her attention. now if she really doesn't share your feelings then you should just let her go because it's going to drive you insane wondering what she is doing all the time. Sounds like you could be a little insecure? good luck
2006-09-27 20:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation as yours. My bf is a fashion model, due to his work, he often needs to work with quite a lot of girls. At the beginning, I felt a bit "jealous" and "angry" but I tried to relax and calm down, it was tough at the beginning but now, I get used to it and I feel that I should trust him and be myself. Our relationship goes very well though. Good luck!
2006-09-27 21:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by smurf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hunni. she's with you, doesn't that say somefing, does she want to be with you,... yes. and she may be "hot" that doesnt' mean shes "unfaithful". trust her, if use have a good relationship that will keep her yours, and those other guys may try, but hu's she with... you. maybe let her know you love her and that your thinking of her... instead of worring about it on the web... tell her and buy her something she'll always think of you with. something that says your there. and that no-one else matters. like a necklace or something. hope i helped hunni good luck love mary xo
2006-09-27 21:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one person who will decide if she will be faithful, and that is your girlfriend herself. No matter what other offers she might receive, if she truly cares about you, she will turn them down. Relax and be yourself.
2006-09-27 20:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋