then they complain that they cant find a good man and when they realize what they had they want it back.
2006-09-27 20:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by mmm m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
typical answers from some of you.the relationship is good.but some women arent used to a good thing, are intimidated by it & depending on how long the relationship is/was some women feel that they dont deserve a good thing & find a way to mess it up or play games and constantly looking for approval and thatthey are wanted.Funny how some people will get deffensive and just attack the writer.why is it that women women bash or talk about men and problems its ok, but the minute a man talks about it there is some thing wrong with him.as for the things women complain of about men well im not that typical male so answer you heatherly thats a different subject.and im talking about the women that dont or cant appreciate a good thing im not ttalking about the ones that can obviously they are in a relationship.women tend to want to find something wrong in a man and or often come in with issues from past relationships into the new one there by messing it up.some women look atall men as being the
2006-09-27 21:07:16 · update #1
She evidently didn't think the relationship was as good at her end.
I think you two should talk with a counselor to see what the problem is, if there is one.
2006-09-27 20:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some counselors say it's because we are trying to re-create a relationship with a man in our past (ex, father, brother, uncle, etc) and when it's not going that way we as women mess it up to continue forcing the relationship to follow the pattern we are trying to re-live. It may be we want to relive it to change the outcome or because we need to stay in the relationship patterns we've known as normal!
2006-09-28 03:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to tell you. Most girls are pretty confusing. Maybe they can't focus on all that they have right infront of them and just keep dreaming the dream even though they might be living it. I think that's why once it's gone they get a chance to step "outside" that box and see what it was they had the whole time. Not all women are that way though, you just need to find the right one.
2006-09-28 03:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by chei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you putting all women in a category? I doubt all women will agree with you. Maybe a good relationship to you is hell to her...try to think about her point of view. I think your question is unfair. I could easily ask why men just want to sit around, watch a game, scrath themselves, get some head and have food ready for them whenever they are hungry? But that wouldn't be fair, would it?
2006-09-28 03:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to have love proven to them. Alot! If your womean doesn't appear to be this way she's special, or there's something wrong with you.
2006-09-28 03:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alivana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do appreciate good relation.
2006-09-28 03:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open your mind, moron! ever occur to you that there is actually something wrong with you?
2006-09-28 03:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by splasha_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋