a good way to solve the problem is to look for friends further than your circle, travel around and open to new things.
i'm sure you can a friend out there as messed up as you. (i don't mean that in a bad way)
2006-09-27 20:55:06
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answered by Vinh 3
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I wish i could say that its wrong to think like that and no one will ever know the pain your going through. I'm sorry to say that its way too common of an emotion to feel alone and want out. Anyone who says they haven't felt that way, or known someone who felt that way is lying. Life is hard and it hurts a lot. No matter how rich and successful we can be, that emptiness can work its way back in to our soul. But, and I'm sure you're like is he trying to make it worse, there is a reason to have hope. No one on earth can replace you. I'm sure that even with lots of people in your life you have fleeting moments of happiness. Maybe it's music maybe some kind activity. Suicide is a door you cant unwalk through. You can never have even the smallest of happiness in this life anymore. And no one ever promised you the next life is better, you may be jumping out of the pan and into the fire. Try and focus on things you like. Going to a bar may make you feel better tonight, but you need to change why you get so down and a beer wont cut it. In this world of mass communication it becomes hard to remember that we are not alone. From the roman soldier 3000 years ago, to the moon resident in 500 years, we are all connected. I can't say any reason for you to make life altering changes, but i can say that the reason you wrote the question is because you wanted someone to answer it. Well we did that now what? not sure if i can answer for you what i can't answer for myself. but if you wanna talk about it further try me again, this time use mrenigma@gmail.com I don't need all these busy bodys reading my sorrow. And neither do you.
2006-09-28 03:56:49
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answered by ipoddironeus 2
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Hey--L--what ?--you gonna cop out on all the people who are going to be depending on you in the future ??
Damn--it probably wouldn't be all so terrible for any one of us to go on over that bar as a singular individual someone----but no matter how singular and alone we might feel---there is someone somewhere that depends on us or will be depending on us on down the way a bit---so-- if you can't come up with any other reasons to stick around--at least consider that soon--and it may not be that long---someone very well may be coming that you CAN LIVE FOR---that promise is most definately worth at least some thought !!! And besides--there's probably at least a couple dozen people right here on the Y-A that would bum out big time if you just left like that !! So-- stand down and give it all another shot here---who knows--you may be in for some really good stuff once the road takes a turn on up there a ways --------------->>>>
2006-09-28 03:55:15
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answered by Anonymous
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whichever idiot wrote death is the end of pain is a retard and they should kill themselves for giving out such stupid advice...no dont commit suicide, i would also suggest to go out and meet people, trust me there is someone out there who loves you whether you know they love you or not...THERE IS SOMEONE...there is someone just like you..waiting for you....it will just take time to find them..if you commit suicide which is the worst answer to any problem, then you will never know what kind of amazing people you could have met, everyone has gone through things in their life where they feel that it's the end, and there's no other answer but something like suicide, you want to be strong, you want to prove to yourself that you can overcome this, so think about it, i know you probably hate hearing suicide is not the answer, but it's true, it's NOT the answer to anything, we only live once, live your life, if you are not living, how can you live and experience life? a day comes where things totally turn around to benefit you, when you least expect it, and these good things start happening to you just when you think "can it get any worse than this"? so..wait, be patient, and most of all be strong.....
2006-09-28 03:49:27
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answered by redstripedkandycane 1
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Suicide is NEVER the answer. Go out (not sure of your age) to a bar or club, something, meet people! If they don't like you, forget them and find somebody else. If push comes to shove, start off meeting people online and then plan to meet and hang out with them! Internet is a great way to meet new people you'd never meet in real life. Trust me, I know many people who have attempted suicide, and they ALL regret it! One girl I know took 170 pills! She didn't remember about 3-4 days when she was in the hospital and getting treated. I'm a college frosh. and I have about 2 friends and its hard, I'm constantly depressed and stressed, but suicide is not the answer, ever. Things will get better, you just have to put yourself out there! Good luck! feel free to drop me a line if you need so other advice! snobrder218@yahoo.com
1-800-SUICIDE....talk to someone!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 03:41:36
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answered by Bobby B 3
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I think that everybody feels the way you do at some point in their life. I know I have--many times.
Life can be very lonely, and sometimes seem almost meaningless, but it can also be a very Beautiful ride.
It's easy to see all the negative in our world,--there's plenty out there!! But if you can just focus on the few positive things you like about yourself, and your life,--you CAN get past these dark feelings your having.
You deserve happiness.
You are worth it!!
2006-09-28 03:50:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I considered it once also. But here is the thing......Whatever your situation right now, I assure you it's temporary. A month from now, a year from now, things may be completely different.
What you are going through now will pass, and things will probably get better.
Start by making a list of things that you hate about your life. Make 2 columns, one of things you CAN change and one of things you CAN'T change. Then, start working on the ones you can change, and just accept the ones you can't change. This helped me greatly.
Hang in there, and if you need someone to talk to, email me at jamesearly@mailaka.net
Good luck.
2006-09-28 03:48:38
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answered by opjames 4
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Dont be silly,you only get one go at life and there is no other side.Make use of what you have.Change things ,go for a hitchhike around the country or world,have a holiday.For the moment ,have a talk to someone,there is plenty of help lines to cheer you up,good luck.
2006-09-28 03:50:21
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answered by frank m 5
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After committing suicide,is there a "no more pain zone " ???? No !!! There isnt ....there is just MORE misery after suicide !!!... Do you think there will be no suffering...just by taking some sleeping pills ...? .....No!
That isnt the solution to misery and problems... SUICIDE WILL BRING YOU PROBLEMS THAT YOU CANNOT EVEN FATHOM...MULTIPLY YOUR MISERY ZILLIONS OF TIMES... THAT IS WHAT COMES FOR ONE WHO COMMITS SUICIDE .Everyone in this world is suffering ..from the beggers to the millionaires...EVERYONE is suffering..This world is NO PLACE for a gentleman!......Actually,YOU HAVE A VERY DEAR FRIEND WHOM YOU HAVE FORGOTTEN SINCE TIME IMMEMORIAL... GOD is the only best friend !!!! If you are lucky enough to believe in Him ..then you should turn to Him and find the REAL HAPPINESS IN THIS LIFE AND THE NEXT ....Read your scripture ...what ever it is ...Bible, Koran, Bhagavad Gita...Look for God ,,,and He will direct you to Him...He is just soooo Kind ...Pray to Him...Talk to Him ...HE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU ... IN YOUR HEART ...HES WAITING FOR YOU TO TURN YOUR HEAD TOWARDS HIM ..YOUR EVER WELL WISHER...
2006-09-28 04:22:43
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answered by radha 1
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I kinda know how that feels, so ive decided to move away for a bit, im going to Oz for a yr to begin with, to meet new people and enjoy new experiences, im not suggesting you move to any other county, but if possible move away to a new location for a while go to pubs and clubs meet new people.
This helps it may not solve all your problems but it will definatly help. Suicide is never the answer, life is a presious gift and we only get one chance at life please dont mess yours up.
2006-09-28 03:45:24
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answered by Angel666 3
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