when I see a good looking and interesting guy... Is it weird or I don't love him enough? I'm afraid I might mess up one time...
2006-09-27 19:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know that feeling....it's called being human.
2006-09-27 19:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by goldie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you like your boyfriend a whole lot but what you are chasing is attention. You already know that your boyfriend wants you so its a bit of a challenge and a turn on to have other guys want you too. You probably will mess up at some time. Its a bullsh*t cliche but when you really love yourself, you wont need others to lavish you with attention. Its pretty normal and women usually play up because the other guy tells them how attractive they are, how interesting they are.. makes them feel good but you won't feel good afterwards when the shine wears off.
2006-09-28 02:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you having just urges or have you strayed?
My answer is clear on this one. Neither my husband nor I of 15 years have ever strayed, but we also are not dead. If I see a good looking guy I do look and sometimes have flirted ever so gently. That means just the way it means no exchanges of body fluid, phone numbers etc etc people, keep it clean! Just pure innocent "looky looky, talky talky wavy wavy" stuff. My husband does the same thing. One time he saw this cute girl with a great body and great A@S and I said "she filled your eyes up so full that it is making my eyes hurt dear!" He said "yea but did you ever see such a greater looking A@S"? I said, " yes as a matter of fact I have dear" he said " no you haven't, When? " I said, " Right NOW!" He said "where?" to which I threw my shoulders back and flew in for the kill ,with a big ol smile{:>) on my face, looking him square in the eyes, "I'm LOOKING AT ONE RIGHT NOW,,,,DEAR!".,,,...We are very happy and loving and in love. We are each others best friends. We still hold hands from time to time in public, take walks and tease each other just like I just showed you. The question and only question you must ask yourself is this ..do you love him?...period. Love does not come with conditions, like I will only love you, if you stop this or that or do this or that. When two people love each other everything they do is for each others benefit for loves sake and to be in love. If you have to make conditions or deals in order to make your "love" work, it will not work in the long run. Find your life's partner that makes you feel the way you want to feel, and makes you want to be a better person. It is that simple. If you are having urges, question the meaning, innocent flirt or real urge? Innocent Flirt, there may be hope for a long future as long as both you and your boyfriend are totally honest about it and can joke about it and it really is just that, innocent, period.Trust comes in many shades of colors with action words.... Real urge?, your relationship is not solid and is on the "fall" downard. You are being dishonest to yourself and the whole meaning of your relationship. If you break this bond, crossing back over to mend it usually never happens and at best is a life of third degrees and arguments, who needs this? Eventually one or both of you will hurt and will be hurtful to each other.
Why not be respectful to your boyfriend and just tell him the truth that you are not ready to be in a committment. Get your wings and fly. One day , you'll land at a new airport, love the scenery , and stay , instead of just visiting, Ok?...Good luck to you and Blessings......Sus {:>)....
PS> To The guy who called you a ...Ho.......Ford F..
I replied ...The only reason he called you that is because nobody has hoed or raked his garden for a very long time...must be full of nasty bug eaten weeds by now!...LOL
2006-09-28 03:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by susdavmurph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it, thats perfectly natural, it doesnt mean that you dont care, it just means that you saw someone hot, if you are tempted to cheat, think twice, trade places with ur man, how would u feel if he was in ur place n he did something, look but dont touch :) but if u have a really strong urge to cheat, look back at your relationship, if u r not getting what u need emotionally, physically, etc, try to fix it, if not maybe urges are a sign that it is time for a change, but if it is just a passing thought and u r happy wit ur relationship, its not that serious :) enjoy that eye candy just dont taste it! :)
2006-09-28 03:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by summer10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. you arent married, so i dont see any reason why you should be tied to one person, if you feel that way. maybe you should break up with him, and date other ppl before settling down into one serious committed relationship..
2006-09-28 02:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by little miss scare all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean. i think its normal just try to stay away from the ones that you might cheat on him with
2006-09-28 02:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r in a commited relationship don't cheat .
2006-09-28 02:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by black cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate u women
2006-09-28 02:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever you do dont screw up
2006-09-28 02:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a whore
2006-09-28 02:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋