me and my family moved to tenn from ny.well i had ababy shower for my youngest daughter .and my oldest daughter said she would invite her friends.to the shower because my youngest daughter really dont know anyone.so my oldest daughter comes with her 3 kids and her 2 friends that came brought there kids and her other friend knocks on my door and didnt even come in just droped her kid off for my oldest daughter to watch.the worst part is that all of them left befor i brought out the baby shower cake. my daughter who is having the baby is very hurt.me hurt and angry.i tryed to make this nice i dont have a lot of money.and did not expect to feed all these kids.when they left i notice most of the baby bags i made with special candy that were for the guest.were gone my mother said they passed them out to the kids.forgot to add this.me and my daughter steped out the door for a min.thats when they all left out the front door without even saying good bye.
2006-09-27 19:43:04 · 14 answers · asked by bassetluv 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
On the contrary I think you should be grateful to all those people for they showed their true self. Of course, it hurts when people take undue advantage but at the same time positive thinking would suggest that this one act of theirs has amply displayed that they are not worth to be interacted with ever again. I think its a little price paid for a bigger lesson learnt.
2006-09-27 20:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that is so not nice of your oldest daughter to put you and your youngest daughter in this situation. I feel bad for your youngest daughter, and I guess it is because my oldest daughter who is really beautiful, use to steal her younger sister's boyfriends. My youngest daughter is beautiful inside, my oldest was not. I sat down with my oldest daughter and set things straight. I told her how I felt and then all three of us talked. We finally got it resolved. Could you talk to your oldest daughter about this, with love and firmness? That was really disrespectful. Love that youngest daughter bunches and bunches as when a sibling hurts them, one that they look up to, it REALLY HURTS. I am so sorry.
2006-09-27 19:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess its a matter of conditioning your mind. the situation may lead to cause anger, but think where it will lead you after wards. yes its veru frustrating when you wanted to be friendly and yet the result is unsatisfactory. were human we do feel that. its normal.. but let not our emotion carried us so much that it may cause another problem
2006-09-27 19:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by crystalink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have a baby shower for anyone if I just moved to a new city and didn't know anyone. Live and learn.
2006-09-27 19:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it does not do any good to be mad but I would be that is disrespectful but that is how some people are so just get over it just don't invite them again.
2006-09-27 19:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be mad. Looks like some people just don't know what the word "manners" mean
2006-09-27 19:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-27 19:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by big_shot_nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter did what you wanted, and invited her friends. She can't control their actions, she did what you wanted. You can't be mad at your daughter. If anything be mad at yourself for telling her to bring them, she couldn't have known they were bringing their children.
2006-09-27 19:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be pretty upset. But there isn't much you can do, just don't invite them over again.
2006-09-27 19:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, I'd be pissed. Sounds like a train wreck.
2006-09-27 19:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by southern fried 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋