I'm currently 20 to be 21 in Feb. I have had only 1 girl friend my entire life and she broke up with me saying I was, "Too nice." Since then I have only been on a few dates here and there and they have turned out to be insensitive sluts that like to mess with guys and can't date anybody from where they live because everybody knows how they are. Is it possible that i'm too nice or what? Because I know i'm not ugly I get complimented on all the time about being, 'hott', and 'cute'.
2006-09-27 19:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by justin s 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I'm not a jerk. I'm always nice and always helpful and polite, I always do my best to make sure they are having a good time and I consider them in the descisions I make. I don't lie cheat, steal, or anything else like that. I keep my house clean and my cars clean. I'm not a bum either.
2006-09-27 19:42:35 · update #1
8 1/2 in length and 4 1/4 in girth
2006-09-27 19:45:39 · update #2
I'm not a virgin but I'm not very experienced in the game either... I lost it to a lesbian at a party. o_O
2006-09-27 19:50:54 · update #3
Well, I don't know how else to describe somebody that goes out with you but while your away doing your Reserve Training 4 hours away, she's out boning whom ever she pleases just because i'm not there. As for the size of my penis, somebody commented, I commented back. It's not that i'm a jerk, maybe socially awkward since I was kept under a rock until I was 17 and then thrown to the world by myself at 18 but, I just have no shame in saying the truth, if you don't like the truth maybe you shouldn't be reading it.
2006-09-28 00:45:24 · update #4
Cause you're a jerk. You go around calling girls sluts, then YES you are a jerk
2006-09-27 19:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Buddy, you're not having enough fun in this subject. It's all a game. Basically what I do is make jokes about myself. The girls laugh, ask me questions, I sort of act like a dork, and I act very comfortable. When you start worrying about how to have fun, that's when you gives yourself needless work. I wish I could have more details on you being "too nice," but I can only conclude that you treated her better than you treated yourself. If that's the case, you are at fault.
Don't worry, it's just a game. You'll get your prize after if you can learn to loosen up. You must also learn to be happy in your life. If you're not, women will spot that and assume you're crazy.
Have fun, dude!
2006-09-28 22:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't despair, I have a cousin close to 40 and still ives with his parents. Still a virgin. Me I am mid 20's. I am to a nice guy. I found my wife at a store. we started talking and 2 years later we are married. You can find a woman any where. Not a bar or at a club. You can find a quik lay but not a life partner. I suggest looking somewhere you are comfortable. somewhere you can be you and not the fake you. Try a library. Nothing is sexyier than a nerdy chick. or a movie place like blockbuster, hang around the suspence section. women are suckers for suspence movies. good luck
2006-09-28 02:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by coachgarcia1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women are evil?
Actually .. at that age.. neither men or women know what the heck they want.
Women, or girls... are still coming out of that rebellious girl stage at 17-22ish. They want someone who peaks their interest and usually in dumb ways. Fast cars, fast bikes, power, money .. yadda yadda.
You will find later that people grow out of that and being the nice/polite good looking guy will get you the best woman you can hope for. As long as you do not fall for an evil psycho before hand.
2006-09-28 02:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ken s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last as they say, it takes awhile to find some one who appreciates you for you. You may have to go through a few bad ones to get the right one. I know I did and I think it kinda goes both ways girls go through bad ones to find the perfect one and so do guys. You can also try E Harmony they have a great success rate and they match to what you are looking for to find you the right ones, it's only a suggestion don't mean you only have this option. Your still young and have plenty of time to find the one who fits you best. Don't dwell on it to much enjoy being a bachelor for the moment.
2006-09-28 02:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be glad that you have such great personality and you don't have to be nice all the time and why die for someone who doesn't value you?see the inner you? don't panic-the right girl come your way.. who knows she might be right under your nose and because of that you don't see her? look out for people who cares for you but doesn't say it aloud much..it's possible(alot) that those who brags they care for you is just showing off so that you would shut up? and really don't die to get a gf..live your life as carefree person now..commitments are hard to deal with ^ ^
and beside being nice, a lil flirt and a lil seriousness won't hurt anybody..sometimes serious or flirty types can attract fairies too ^ . ~ so live with it-be as happy as you are
best of luck!!
2006-09-28 03:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by --[[S.W]]-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sick to death of hearing guys say "why don't i have a girlfriend? i'm sooooo nice. am i too nice?"
chances are, if you have to say it, you're probably not as nice as you say you are. especially if you are going around calling women sluts. NO nice guys i know (and date) have EVER said such a thing.
girls worth keeping like nice guys. my suspicion is you're a socially awkward person who borders on jerkiness because you don't know how to act properly around people. it takes more than having moral standards to be a nice guy.
EDIT: my god, i just realized that you posted your penis size! now i am thoroughly convinced that you are nowhere near the fabulous guy you seem to think you are.
2006-09-28 04:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you're probably just too damn nice. They may see you as someone they don't really have to contend with, someone that they can really challenge. You need to have some more attitude(not bad attitude) and when you do find a chick you like, ask her questions. Lots of girls like to talk about themselves so as long as they're doing the talking, you don't have much to worry about.
2006-09-28 02:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by christonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places , go to place that you like ex: a fishing trip obviously the girls there like it too . So you Will have something in common
2006-09-28 04:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Heidi W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're so young you will find someone don't worry about it too much. Also maybe try getting a little more aggresive and bieng outgoing the more girls you talk to and get to know the higher your chances of hitting it off with one and getting serious! :-)
2006-09-28 02:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by eric g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋