My girlfriend found out i was a virgin through some of my friends, and we ended up talking about it. In the middle of the conversation she told me "It's ok ur a virgin,my last boyfriend didn't lose his virginity until he was 21". The thing that scares me about that is that she is 14 and i am too,i also heard her boyfriend is gangbangin',my friends said she said her last boyfriend was a Latin King. What should i do?,i love her but she does quite akward things. The thing i also hate is that she kisses everyone on the cheek,i though she only kissed me on the cheek,but i found out she kisses al of her friends on the cheek,best friend,cousin ect. HELP ME!
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1 hour ago
Look,she's not trashy not a hoar. I think with kissing on the cheeks part it might have something to do with her nationality,she's Peruvian/Codorian/Puerto Rican. She's definetelly not fast,she made me talk to her a month to get with her,she told me the first day i tried to get with her "I'm Not Fast".
1 hour ago
she's not forcing me to do anything,just so u know,she's cool as hell.
1 hour ago
She has no problem with me being a virgin,see she always tell my friends thing she want tell me,and they run and tell me. She said she thinks its cute that i'm a virgin.Whats so cute about that?lol
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12 minutes ago
She's not wild,she's real laid back and mello,hardly talks in class.
8 minutes ago
to X Zhiohobian,whatever the hell his name was,She's not hoe not loose,she is nothing close to that. Even though i wonder how in the hell,and why in the hell was she dating a grown man for 1 yr.,she's not like that,u don't know her like i do.
2006-09-27 18:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling, i think you have answered your own question through all of your additional details that you added. You obviously really like and respect this girl because every time someone has bagged her out, you have stuck up for her and so she sounds like she has your heart, your respect and is respectful of you too. You will have to learn to deal with any girlfriends ex partners in life. It is something that we all have to do as when you get older, you will not be the first for anyone. Talk to her about it as much as you can and if she is nice about it, forget about her past and focus on your time with her now.
The cheek kissing is a cultural thing. My whole family and friends all kiss each other hello and goodbye sometimes on the lips. We all give each other a peck sometimes the lips, sometimes the cheeks and americans seem to think that is weird but for us its just a greeting. (I am from North of England but live in australia & aussies do it too) and it takes forever to leave a party because you have to kiss everyone goodbye.
2006-09-27 19:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like her knight in shining armour, defending her so much. You are right, I don't know her. The kissing on the cheek is no biggy, it is probably the way she was brought up. If you were to meet her family, I bet you will find out the whole family is like that. Every family is different. I take it your family does not kiss alot. That's o.k. too.
As far as her dating an older guy, that was in the past, and if it bothers you alot, get around to asking her about it. She is with you now and that is all that matters. You can't change her past so leave it alone.
2006-09-27 19:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're intimidated about your girlfriends freinds and you are afraid you cant live up to thoese standars, aswell as she does strange/weird things. As far as the cheek thing goes.. you should put up with it or tell her. Its the only way. & if your g.f thinks its ok you're a virgin that its cool. No sweat bro! If you like her, she likes you.. its all good... by the way I wouldn't sweat that you're a virgin at age 14...
Just calm down and let your realtionship take its course.
2006-09-27 19:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you reposting this thing in a whole new question? Is it because no one has told you what you want to hear? Well that's life babe. You asked a question, you got a litany of answers, you got pretty defensive and posted all those additional details to people's responses, so.....what is it that you want? Tell us what you want to hear and maybe someone will do the favor and post it for you. Otherwise, I don't get it.
2006-09-27 19:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was hard to find your question in all of that, but I gather your question is "What do I do?" Well, it was all in the past, and if you love her, just forget about it. Who cares who or what her ex is? He is an ex now and you are her current boyfriend so what is there to worry about? Unless he is coming around now and bugging her, then I would just forget about it and enjoy each others presence now while you are still in it.
2006-09-27 19:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by ananswerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's young, and sex is kind of a big deal to some people at that age. That's why she thinks it's cute. When she gets older it won't be a big deal to anyone.
Good luck!
2006-09-27 19:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy Is Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 14 and sexually active and dated a grown man. That does make her wild and trashy. When you grow up you will realize it.
2006-09-27 19:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?!
Just do what you want to do! Why do you even need our help-- all you are doing is sitting there defending her, it's obvious you already know the answer to your own question.
2006-09-27 19:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋