Ive known this girl for a few years now. Shes been single for a while and we flirt around once in a while. For some reason I told her i wasnt just trying to have sex with her. And that seems its the only reason we flirt because it never goes any farther. Just the other night we had a few drinks and she stayed over and we slept together real close but didnt have sex. It seems she respected me saying i wasnt tryin to bang her.
I dont inderstand why she would strip down and sleep with me but not go any further. Do you think i have a chance? I really like this girl my head is in knots right now.. Argh
2006-09-27 18:58:04 · 11 answers · asked by The Boss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so you said you weren't 'just' trying to have sex with her.. that doesn't mean you don't want to. It means its not the only thing you want.. explain that to her.
If she gets in your bed half naked again, cuddle up and if she responds, go further, if she responds, go the whole way. If she gets all cold tell her that stripping off and sleeping with you is a real p*ss off and people who are only friends keep their clothes on and she should stop leading you on. Either give it up or stay just friends, leading you on then pushing you away is her way of getting the attention she wants without giving it back to you. She is selfish..she wants to know that you think she is great and be greatful for being able to give her your affections. Tell her you need some back or cut the sh*t.
2006-09-27 19:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gotta remember
Girl + Bed doesn't always = sex
maybe she can see you as something more than a casual sex buddy, and wants to see how you react to certain situations. Go with the flow! it may turn into something better than just the once off drunken sex romp :P
good luck!
2006-09-28 02:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes buddy! you have a pretty good chance.. May be she is just a bit shy or may be she is "no sex before marriage" kind.. which one should respect. But it wouldnt hurt to get a bit naughty. If she did sleep with you, its worth a shot to initiate. Go ahead!!!
2006-09-28 02:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by noesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you to make the final move, because she's a girl. She got as far as stripping down naked so she just wants you to do the rest.
2006-09-28 02:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Deseree G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls dont strip down and sleep in your bed and expect to be left alone. She is willing. Now you just have to make the move.
2006-09-28 02:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that you don't want to just have sex, & I bet that she is happy that that's not all you want! it sounds like you really like her, you should show her that you rexpect her, if you really want to go out with this girl tell her! at lest you would be telling her the truth! & yes I think you have a good chance. thats what I think
2006-09-28 02:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you really are in it just for sex. She was testing your resolve, either that or she was inviting you to ravish her and you didnt take the hint.
2006-09-28 02:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do she may think you don't want her have a talk with her tell her how you feel and get it going good luck to the both of you
2006-09-28 02:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wanted to see how far you would take it. If you want something more from her be honest and tell her don't play games.
2006-09-28 02:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was probably just waiting for you to make a move. girls really like aggressive guys.
2006-09-28 02:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by HonestTruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋