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I ran out of ideas to talk to her. Need help.

I need to talk to her as much as i can!

2006-09-27 18:25:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

15 answers

Here's the beautiful part:
You don't have to talk much at all.

If you are truly interested in her, you should let her do a lot of the talking. Simply ask her questions about things that she is interested in. You don't necessarily have to give your opinions.

She will think that you are great. I am very attracted to men who will sit down and listen to me.

2006-09-30 08:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0 0

If you have her phone number, it's a good sign that she's at least sort-of into you anyway. With that in mind, play a few games. Have some fun with it and don't get nervous. Just ask her to a neutral place to have a date (so it won't be a real date, but you can guage her reactions to various hints you can make) and ask her some non-interrogating questions such as, "Do you have a boyfriend?" etc., that won't be construed as anything if you work it into the conversation properly. Chances are, she's just as into you as you are to her and she's just waiting for you to make the first move, but if you do it subtly, i guarantee she'll be charmed by it. (Just don't say stuff like, "I think you're really pretty," because then she'll feel objectified)

2006-09-28 10:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by The One 2 · 0 0

hey depends what kind of girl she is! Dont really talk about yourself too much unless the girl asks you! Let her speak and listen to everything she has to say! If she has any idea that you might like her tell her your true feelings, exactly how you feel! Females love honesty!

2006-09-28 01:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Yahoo 1 · 0 0

Hey, we've all been there, right fellas?

You gotta make her feel special, take interests in her interests, if you run out of stuff to say ask her questions about herself. Keep the conversation about her and keep it floating, don't talk about yourself unless she asks. From my experience women are more interested in someone who can carry a conversation than someone who can talk about themselves. That's really a good rule when your speaking to anybody, whenever you run out of stuff to say, make them start talking.

2006-09-28 01:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by comrade_crunch 2 · 0 0

Little trick, although its kind of an "***" move...

Talk about some other chick that is a very slightly a mutual friend but she doesn't know that well... get's em every time.

BUT, if you really do talk that much she probobly likes you back =)

2006-09-28 01:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tonx 3 · 0 0

Tittle: WHAT REAL GAME IS 3EASY STEPS!
NEVER SHOOT OUT A PICK UP LINE, CONTROL THE PACE AND TOPICS, (NOT BY RUNNING YOUR MOUTH) BY ASKING OPEN ENDED QUESTIONS(PEOPLE LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES ESPECIALLY WOMEN. {STEP 2:} LISTEN AND ALWAYS ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT THEY SAY EITHER BY AGREEING OR SAYING WHAT YOU REALLY LIKED IN THEIR OPINION(NOTE U HAVE TO ALWAYS DIRECT ATTENTION ON THEM WITH UR QUESTIONS U CAN ALSO OPEN ENDED-LY ASK THERE OPINION ON THING, ALSO NEVER DISAGREE ALLOT BECAUSE
THEY GET THE FEELING OF NOT BEING COMPATIBLE) STEP 3: TRY TO TAP INTO THE MAGIC USING THE WORDS FEEL, FELT , DESCRIBING OR ASKING YOUR Q?. EXAMPLE1-> TANIA, ITS FUNNY I FEEL LIKE I KNOWN YOU FOR YEARS AND WE JUST MET. EXAMPLE 2-> YOU SAID (REPEAT HER WORDS) CORRECT? I FELT THE SAME WAY.OR HOW DO U FEEL OR WHY DO YOU FEEL? ALWAYS SAY YES OR MAYBE NEVER USE THE WORD 'NO' OR A NEGATIVE ANSWER. LAST HINT NEVER'NEVER'NEVER' BREAK EYE CONTACT.

2006-09-28 03:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by assume_thesale 1 · 0 0

Find a common interest or several.....if she is available for all these phone conversations she may share your interest in her
and is waiting for you to show your interest...go for it...

2006-09-30 09:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0 0

It's not good to do all the talking thing.....let her talk and you do the listening.

2006-09-28 01:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by marshal m 2 · 0 0

Tell her that you got a crush.

2006-09-28 01:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0 0

Then ask her out

2006-09-28 01:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bright 6 · 0 0

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