im in high skool my first year. i have a bf in 10th grade and we hug, talk, hold hands at the most. dont kiss or anithing cuz i noe im not suppose to have a bf. but i told my parents they said no. i introduced them to him and him to them they still say no. this weekend we have a family party thing. should i invite him and personally introduce him to the family?
2006-09-27 18:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure it would prolly help the family get to know him
2006-09-27 18:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah invite him to the party but dont tell any one you are going out. try to get ur bf to impress the family. This way when you ask your dad about your boyfriend you can get his real opion on him. then if your bf has a good impression on the parents then ask them what htey woudl think if you went out with him. But if the impression is bad then keep it a secret at least untill you with in legal age. She its kind of romantic when you have to hide the relationship
2006-09-28 03:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents already said no, they're not going to be too happy about having him show up at your family party thing.
Take the hint already. If you want to keep seeing this guy, he's going to have to be your at-school boyfriend. Your parents don't think your old enough to date, and they're probably right. You're not going to win any points with them through disobedience.
2006-09-27 18:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, how many times do your parents need to say, "No". I know you do not want to hear this, but, just hear me out. If you continue to defy your parents, your relationship with them will become more and more strained. You might make them so angry that they put off letting you date even longer than they had planned. Give it another year and then ask. During that year, you can still see this guy at school and "accidentally" run into him at school functions. If he is not willing to wait another year, than he is not worth your trouble.
2006-09-27 18:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by ponderinglife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you will have many more boyfriends in your high school years. You should only bring home the guy you are truely in love with. Than you won't have to hear your parents mouth about the guys because when you really love someone it won't matter what they think.
2006-09-27 18:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he is ok with the natural rejection he will experience, then go for it. If he is gonna feel bad, then don't, because then you will have to split in a million pieces trying to please and talk to everyone in your party, but will always be thinking about him being alone waiting for you, cuz no one will talk to him.
2006-09-27 18:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no show respect to ur parents. if u force this they will not be happy and ur bf will be in the middle of a bad situation, and with all ur family around.
2006-09-27 18:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes- ur old enough to have a boy----friend just dont get pregant whatever u do.... ur parents sound strict
2006-09-27 18:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're in high school. okay, just do it!
Good luck!
2006-09-27 18:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it
2006-09-27 18:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋