Relationships... and breaks.?

Question

My boyfriend and I are on a break. Actually he thinks that he isn't good for me and he wants me to find someone better. His father and mother have always influenced his life and because their marriage didn't work out he is afraid of women and the love and pain that being together can sometimes cause. "Anyway." I told him that I thought we should think about our priorities and call it quits but that I wasn't sure that I wanted things to be over with, I just neeed time... he'd fibbed to me about a few innocent things and I just didn't want them to escalade into something worse. I changed my mind about breaking it off and went to him and told him that a day later. He wouldn't talk to me or touch me. I packed my things and left. He stopped telling me he loves me. He told me he hasn't written me off yet, he is just ashamed because he can't buy me things and give me what I want until he graduates college. Is there hope??

Answer 1

i could totally relate to your problem as well as many others. but i think this tI'me apart is good for the both of you. I'm glad you said you guys should think about your priorities first and that is a very good thing. me and my boyfriend of 2 yrs recently took a BREAK cause we're going to different colleges and we just need to focus on ourselves first before we focus on us..so basically what im saying is, there still is hope but just give it some time..only time will tell. be patient. always remember good things never come easy

Answer 2

Honey, let me tell you something i learned the hard hard way. When a guy says 'you are too good for me ' or "i am not good enough for you'... no matter how much you love him, LISTEN, get up and run as fast as you can.

They are warning you of either low self esteem (where you spend your life catering to their emotional needs while yours are ignored) or that he will turn out absive (cause they won't tell you that)

Answer 3

Neither of you are mature enough, or decisive enough, to have a successful relationship. Love is about what you can do to care for the other person. It's not about the time YOU need, and its not about the kind of person HE's not.

You need to learn to sacrifice your needs for others. He needs to learn to step up and be a better man where he is weak, rather than wallowing in his weakness.

Answer 4

sounds very respectful if hes not using you in any way, not abusing the word love around you etc.
sounds like he has top intentions for you. Id move on a ways but definately keep in touch with him every now and then.
Plenty of hope with respectful minds.

Answer 5

I think too much of exposure and too much talk.

Let both of you have a time of realization, in which two of u be low profile.

You should see after this period what ts best for him and so will he!

Say about 15 days silence?

Answer 6

Hi sweetheart! I went through a bad divorce! Contact me at [e-mail] or [e-mail] Trust me!!!

Answer 7

I'm not going to read all that, I will just say that you shouldn't trust everything that big media tells you although their graphics are very arousing.

Answer 8

THERE IS ALL WAY HOPE , IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER THEN
BOTH OFYOU NEED THIS BREAK TO FIND OUT WHAT YOU
BOTH WANT OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP. SO JUST TAKE
IT SLOW AND WILL EVENTALLY WORK IT SELF OUT , IF
IT MEANT TO BE THEN IT WILL. BE. NO ONE KNOW THE
FUTURE AND WHAT IT WILL BRING.

Answer 9

I know one thing to be absolutely true. When a man tells you he isn't good enough for you. HE ISN'T.

Answer 10

Always there is hope......Give him space and he will come back.......Take care.........