My boy-friend is a very nice percon but he never talks to me and acts like he dosent even know me what should i do??? Break up with him, i dont want to though cause i love him ta pieces or tell him how i feel????
2006-09-27 17:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by ~Godrules~#1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you have a boyfriend, who doesn't talk to you, and pretends like he doesn't know you. You "love" him but he doesn't know how you feel. Sounds like a young relationship. Mabey 7th grade tops. But if I were you, start by talking to him. If he keeps on pretending not to know you, then he isn't worth it.
2006-09-27 17:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by cowgoesmoo31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to handle it professionally and with care, you might want to approach him and ask him, why he's acting this way and all? You need to find out his problems, before you make a silly and stupid mistake like ".....breaking up" :S .
I have one question to ask you. Why doesn't he want to talk to you? It's a bit strange. Normally, lovers talk a lot. Did you annoy him or hurt his feelings in anyway?
If you really love this guy, you need to investigate the problem. Some guys keep things inside! Some guys love talking about everything and I really mean, EVERYTHING! I'm one of those guys.....who do talk about everything....... that is if only I had a gf......hehe :D
Tell what you feel inside and that you're hurt.
Now, the negative side of things would be that, he's just using you for something. He doesn't really LOVE YOU at all, but wants you around. Why would a guy called as your "boyfriend" act as if he doesn't know you?
Can you explain with an example of a problem?
2006-09-28 00:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ma. u need to talk with him. if u truly love him u talk with him let him know how u feel about it. if he doesnt change i think its time u move on. cause whats the point of being in a relationship if u r not noticed or talked to by ur partner. or unless u want him to just ignore u all the time like now. best bet let him know u are bothered by this n how u feel. tell him u need him to talk to u or else.
2006-09-28 00:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by pitbull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't treat you the way you deserve from the very beginning, he'll never do it. And I don't think you love him, you just love the idea of being with him. Get away from that tormentous relationship and I guarantee in two weeks you'll find someone way better than this guy.
2006-09-28 00:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should talk to him--maybe hes nervous cause this may be first time having a real friend......but that is kind of mean for him to ignore you,if he wanted to go out with you then why is he ignoring you that just doesn't make any sense. since the day you started going out he should have been all over you instead of ignoring you --- maybe his friends dont except it or maybe theres someone hows telling him things.......well you should talk to him and see what happens cause you dont want to hurt...do you.....maybe some things are happening to himso what im saying is that you should talk to him.........well i hope this helped with youre realtionship problem....
2006-09-28 00:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Chino's Lady♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, why love someone who obviously doesnt care about or love you?? Its time to leave him alone and start loving yourself. You have to love yourself before anyone can love you. Allowing this young man to treat you this way is unacceptable, and believe me you deserve better!!! Move on, men change like the weather. . .give it some time, there is someone out there for you. Someone that will appreciate and love you in return. But remember, you have to first love yourself first!. . . Good luck
2006-09-28 00:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel & if things don't change for the better then break up with him. What good could it possibly do you to stay with someone who won't love you back? He's ignoring you & that's not right.
2006-09-28 00:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely you need to have a good conversation with your boyfriend let him know whats going on. Maybe something is bothering him.....who knows.
Yes let him know what you are feeling, this way it will let him know that he is messing things up. If he continues to be this way, then you must move on......cause you can't be putting up with that. Good luck!
2006-09-28 00:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you love someone who treats you that way? You deserve a boyfriend who actually acts like a boyfriend. It's time to let this one go.
2006-09-28 00:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone that cares nothing for you and never talks much to you. Even if he is a nice person and do nothing to please you, one should reconsider. The break-up is your choice or continue to see if things will work out okay.
2006-09-28 00:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋