I have a family problem...i posted a similar question the other day but i didnt clear what i said... so here it is..... start like 3 years ago........I have lived with my mom almost my whole life, then one day my dad comes and brought me to this country..(i'm a fob), i dont know anyone i dont even know my dad....he had a wife..(who treat me like a piece of crap) and i have a bro i dont even know.... a grandma i never seen....they all treat me unfairly, they all reject me, my dad even stop me from contacting my friends by sending me to other school....(the only people who i have) and my STEP MOM tried to stop me from contact my mom....now even my cousin hate me.....i dont know what to do i want to die.....but if i die all my friends would be sad and my mom would be sad..... i dont know what to do........
2006-09-27 17:07:43 · 7 answers · asked by I'm Sexy!! and you know i am 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay, you do have a problem...and I have no clue why the man has you living with him...or why your mother allowed you to go....but
You can go to the American Embassy (I'm assuming you were living in the US...if not then your native/former country embassy) and let them know you have a problem. If you cant get there, write. If you can't send a letter, or need a different address, use a friends address and sent it from there. Or since you are on the computer, e-mail them. Look for ____Embassy, city, country.
They should be able to address your problem. In the meantime....stay cool....you choose where you live when you come of age.
Part of your problem is cultural. Try to relax. Take a look around and see where your upbinginging and your new culture clash. Try to modify your behaviors so that you are not targeted all the time as "foriegn". You have a right to be there too, and to experience all the beauty and culture of another land. This kind of experience fosters world peace. Be one of the people who can see the value of all the diviersity in the world.
If you hate it at home try to reduce your time there. Join stuff after school, do your homework and take measures to ensure that you can hold a decent job enough to allow you some independence when you do leave the house. See if you can take up something that provides an income part time now. Always behave in a responsible manner and treat these people with respect. Show them that you are someone whom they can respect. Aim for the end result. Develop the things that will gain you your independence. You're going to have to support yourself no matter where you live eventually. Just keep your eyes on the things you have to do now to get what you need when the time comes to go.
2006-09-28 01:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way that you can go back and live with your mom? If not, you need to make the best of it now. Find the positive things in your life. Lean on your friends and talk to them about your feelings.
2006-09-28 00:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, where are you now, and what country were you from? It won't be easy, but maybe you can go back to your mom?
2006-09-28 00:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to your mom's house. have only holiday/birthday contacts by phone with your dad and his family....
2006-09-28 00:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by fricatease 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your family thinks about you? keep talking to your old friends and trust me it really helps. try and make new friends too. just dont hurt yourself it won't do any good.
2006-09-28 00:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by just me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leaves your dad & his family,go back to your mom.She's the one who will loves & protect you.
2006-09-28 00:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is best to go back to where you are loved
2006-09-28 00:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by slphillips_67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋