If a guy doesn't call you in a few days does that mean he's just been really busy or has he lost interest in me?
2006-09-27 16:58:45 · 19 answers · asked by Apy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi,if he is interested he will give you a call,if not you don't need to call him, but ill tell you ,don't feel bad they are many more where he came from.
good luck
2006-09-27 17:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by leena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide in your mind what you will and what you will not accept in dating. If you think it is up to you to pursue a guy, go ahead and call him. Me, I decided I would not do that. If a guy wants to go out with me, he can make a move. Do you want a guy who is so busy, he can't find 10 minutes to call you on the phone? Nobody's too busy for someone they're crazy about! If he's datinig you and lots of other girls too, is that acceptable to you? How about if he's just not wild about you-is that alright if he just wants someone to go out with once in a while, but nothing more? How about if he calls you in 2 weeks, a month? What's your cut off time where you say, get a life, buddy, I'm on to someone else? Once you figure out that sort of stuff, dating get a lot easier. Stick to what you believe you deserve, and you'll never feel cheated. Good luck!
2006-09-27 17:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are only 2 people that will know the answer to this question. Look for sincerity in his voice if he does call with an explanation. Listen to your gut to decipher wether he is telling the truth or not. If you decide that he is lying and you decide you don't want to see or talk to him anymore and you decide to end it.
IIf he is sincere and really wants to get to know you better he will try to contact you somehow and tell you the truth, but if he doesn't then you did yourself a favor. Don't waste your time on those that don't waste their time on you.
2006-09-27 17:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by bizlady_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have better things to do than wait by the phone? Call him! Guys don't think that it is a big deal if they don't talk to us for a couple of days..and in the mean time we are waiting around for a phone call.
2006-09-27 17:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean either or both. If I were you, I would be too busy to care if he calls or not. If it's meant to be, and if he really likes you, it will all work out. If it doesn't work out, he wasn't the right guy for you. Stop making things so complicated or you'll be an emotional roller coaster for your entire dating life.
2006-09-27 17:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you like a couple? Did you just MEET a few days ago? It all depends, love.
Best bet is to call HIM. Nowadays most men like it. It's good to know when women actually care because they always act like they don't.
2006-09-27 17:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not that into you. I personally think the only guys that deserve me are the ones that think I'm worth the effort...
And if he is playing games... also not worth it..
sorry:( Been there.. I never wait by the phone anymore
2006-09-27 17:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy gets a girls # we always wait at least 5 days to call so we dont seem desparate. So dont sweat it.
2006-09-27 17:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him!! If he likes you, he will find a way to call you. Unless if you are desperate, then sure, go ahead call him. Be strong, girlfriend!!
2006-09-27 17:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by KoKo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD MEAN A LOT OF THINGS, SO IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT GOING ON, THEN PICK UP THE PHONE AND ASK HIM WHAT UP...
2006-09-27 17:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋