i have an amazing boyfriend but i was born a worrier. i worry about everythng not just him. he truly isnt the cheating typ ebut for some reason i always think he is. he can just clal me and say im going to sleep goodnight call me in the morning and ill jus tthink hes not sleeping hes with a girl. hes a wonderful person and doesnt deserve it really but i need some positive feedback on whether there is faithful people out there.
i mean doesnt the guilt kill cheaters inside that they have to tell there wife or gf? i know it doesnt but is there any hope in love anymore and faithfulness?
2006-09-27 16:55:19 · 16 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a lot of faithful men out there, and I'm not one at heart, however on the same token the women I go with knows this ahead of time and I don't mislead them on into believing something that not going to happen. From my observation the ones that are faithful....are to a degree considered to be wimps, boring, pansies, non-drinkers/partiers...etc.
2006-09-27 17:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guilt gets to some, but most cheaters are repeat cheaters and I think they get over the guilt part. Anyway, you say he is amazing and you dont really thing he is a cheater. It sounds like you have the problem not him. You should get some couseling to help your trust issues.
2006-09-27 17:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I have the same problem which u have. i'm also a girl and love a boy sometimes i douth on him to much then when i think with myself i fell i'm wrong. and i fell i'm not doing well so i know i'm not doing well that is why i'm telling u if u can control yourself and u can to not show how u fell about him that is much better try to research and try to first make yourself confiddent then suspect on him. and yas i can say still there are mony men who are faithfull and i'm sure he is one of them. and i can say it is also not your problem coz when u love someone more than u must u will suspect coz u don't wana lose him so try to not lose him with this negative felling.
Best of luck
2006-09-27 17:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by 12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am faithful to my girl. it's okay to worrie, just let yourself trust him more gradually with time. That is how relationships grow into something more of a blossumed true love that an old couple share
2006-09-27 17:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been cheated on before? You sound like it.
You need to control your fears with this great man. If you treat him like a cheater long enough, then you may turn him into one.
2006-09-27 17:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the odds are against you, but remember the percentage of men and women that cheat, are equal. Think about how many of your friends that are women, who don't cheat. There's just as many men, so there are some.
2006-09-27 17:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nep 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey im a guy, i know exacltly how you feel. like i think you just have to accept the fact and believe and trust him (for me its her) but like if you love him then you should trust him and you should believe that he isnt cheating. and you already said hes not a cheating type. yes there are faithful people out there, im sure hes one of them, just trust him.
2006-09-27 17:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married now for 27 years .met him on a blind date. hes always been faithful. hope this puts your mind at ease. this shows that there are at least a few honest men left.
2006-09-27 17:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are totally faithful to the woman they love until they are not.
2006-09-27 17:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi Di 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lass, believe me or not if you go on like this you are spoiling you relation. Your suspicious nature might just reflect to him as though you don't trust him and you yourself cant be trusted..
careful lassy.. don't be over possessive..
2006-09-27 17:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by daredevil83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋