I met this guy who is 24 years older than me and he's not my type at ALL. I told myself I was just going to be friends with him but I'm feeling more for him. Last night was the first time I went out with him. I didn't think of it as a date just going out with a friend. Before the night was over I was in his arms and he kissed me on the lips. He says he respects me and it doesn't have to go any further and I want to believe that. I can't decide what is drawing me to him. I am VERY picky when it comes to guys I like and he's not my type but for some reason it doesn't matter. Why?
2006-09-27 16:15:38 · 16 answers · asked by countrygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WTF!? Either you are crazy or a nympho.......Maybe you are beginning to mature......I dunno, but I think it's okay.
2006-09-27 16:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience - I can tell you that it is the maturity that draws you. I bet he says all the right things to make you feel like an incredible woman - and you and he have intelligent conversations. He probably has manners - opens doors for you - and could probably take you out on a really great date. Men that are 20+ years our senior are from a different walk of life - they have learned how to treat women. And... it is very easy to be drawn to that - I mean, who doesn't want to be treated with respect by a man that can talk to her about real life - and makes her feel like a real woman?
2006-09-27 23:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Juzt_b_238 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you just want attention? You didnt say how old you are... 24 years is a very big diff in age. If he is not your type and you do not have many things in common... I dont think it will work very long.. I could be wrong..Just my opinion
2006-09-27 23:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change and so do there taste in men. I would tell you to be careful of someone who is that much older than you.Getting involve with him could seem like a good thing now,but you have to look at the long term.
2006-09-27 23:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter to you right now because he's a creep who's ensorcelled you with his false charm and excessive attention. Once he gets what he wants from you (i.e. sex), he'll be gone.
After reading your other questions, there is no doubt that this guy is a deceitful loser who is not only going to hurt you, but his wife as well. Stay away from him.
2006-09-27 23:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do , you like him subconsciously, in your conscious state of mind you would not fall for him ,but if he is in your dreams, you indeed like him, but be careful you might just feel this way right now it could change tomorrow, the guy is right take it one step at a time no rushing,no need to move away from him either,just be sure youre not in this just for the fun or for the wonder of that kiss, you see this might just actually be about sex, and not love.
2006-09-27 23:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't may know maybe you found he attract to you and but the maybe he the first one to kiss on the first date and you had feeling for him already. would you let any guy kiss you on a first date only you can answer this.
hope this help
HAVE A WONDEFUL DAY ^.^
2006-09-27 23:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by mike2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you need to wake up...immediately! Who is 'friends' with someone of the opposite sex who is 24 yrs OLDER than you...its just not possible.
2006-09-27 23:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by James 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats ok i mean it is kind of crazy but pretty normal
He must be really sweet if you're that attached to him but slow it down if you still want to be friends with him '-'
2006-09-27 23:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by shadow13579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the reason it doesn't matter to you, is because you're starting to look at him with your heart & not your eyes. Things happen for a reason sweetie~good luck
2006-09-27 23:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some times age doesnt matter and neither does your reasoning. its called hormones. some peoples hormones just click well together. you know, pharamones. careful, this feeling wont last forever.
2006-09-27 23:19:58 · answer #11 · answered by racer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋