OK. I've had a crush on a girl forever now and I just sent her a couple of emails. The hotmail email I sent her bounced back and she never responded to the other email I sent her. We go to the same college and I've walked right by her a few times and we just stared at eachother. Today I saw her in her office and I waved to her and she smiled and waved back. What is going on here? First she doesn't respond to my emails, then she just glares at me when she walks by me, and now she is smiling and waving at me. When is this game going to end? When will we be in eachothers arms like Romeo and Juliet?
2006-09-27 16:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in college??? Quit sending emails and get the nerve to ask her out....quite simply then you will know if she is interested or not.
2006-09-27 16:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gosh you are really in love, how romantic.
well for one thing she might not have read any of your emails and is just really friendly
if you want to be happy never be like romeo and juliet, because they had a tragic ending
next thing be brave if you really want her tell it to her personally, most girls hate it when men court them on emails or express what they feel through other means.
writing a letter might be old fashioned, but it will feel more sincere if you cant tell it to her.
but you see if you never really ask her you will never really know if you have a chance,if you tell her right now in your most original way that you really really love her, then you would know the answer to your question
stop being a coward, women hate cowards
2006-09-27 23:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, sorry to break this to you bro, but it is not going to happen. If this girl was into you, she would acknowledge you if you walked by. Trust me on this grasshoppa, I got into a situation where I was friends with a woman for eight years, though she knew I kinda had a thing for her. She left her husband and did it happen with us? Hell no, because she only thought of me as a friend! I have learned and you should to, if you want to go there with someone, you need to get it done with quick, so promise yourself, as I have promised myself, NO MORE CRUSHES!!! They are nothing but psychological torture and keep you from something that might be real.
Oh and baby boo, that whole deal that girls like to be treated nice, complete nonsense. You might like to think that way but in reality being treated nice is not very exciting. If a woman doesnt have something about a man to fix they get bored.
2006-09-27 23:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Phister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said her emails got bounced back.. doesnt this mean she did not get them? Try talking in person... If your so shy that you have to email her..what if she says yes? You have to talk. And since she smiled and waved.. she prob is interested. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-27 23:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, she's just not into you. She's being polite to you in public and giving you a huge hint by not responding to your e-mail. Move on, Romeo... Juliet isn't in the balcony.
2006-09-27 23:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's just shy..go up and talk to her..ask her out for lunch or coffee..get to know her and let her get to know you..then you'll be closer to getting her into ur arms as long as you try to communicate through emails she's always gonna be that much further away..act now b4 someone else steals her away..good luck
2006-09-27 23:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by baby d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u stop being a pussy.. u make this is sound more complicated than a whole season of the OC when in fact its just u cant talk to her straight up.its not rocket science.. its UR DUTY to approach her or not u dont deserve the prize
2006-09-27 23:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is interesting. Well, are you friends with her? if you are, then good. At least she knows about you. Maybe like ask her why she hasn't replied to your emails and such and such. After she answers, then like maybe drop a hint that you like her. You know, give her the idea you want to be with her. Also, just remember that WE, girls, like to be treated nice, so be patient AND be nice. :) GOOD LUCK
PS. Girls like to keep a guy guessing :P
2006-09-27 23:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't need a girls advice, you just need courage. this girl is probably waiting for you to make the first move. you're in college son. its time to be a man and talk learn to talk to girls. my question is. do you have any classes with her. do you talk to her daily or weekly or is this just some girl you saw walking by and decided you liked her. just go talk to her. oh yea, don't forget your juevos. you're going to need those
2006-09-27 23:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you finally find the courage to walk up top her and start the whole process...
2006-09-27 23:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by monyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋