How can I stop being so jealous. I keep telling myself my boyfriend is with me because he loves me and he wont cheat on me but I keep thinking in the back of my head hes going to cheat on me and I wont even know or find out. Maybe its bcuz hes lied to me numerous of times about where is was at and who he was with but i dont know what to do...
2006-09-27 15:53:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He broke your trust, he needs to earn it back or this relationship will be filled with suspicion and unhappiness. You will have to talk to him about how much it hurts you when he is not telling you the truth. Your jealousy stems from your distrust of his behaviour. If he can't be open with his time spent with other people then you might have to reevaluated how much this relationship is worth fighting for.
2006-09-27 16:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke your trust, not once, but numerous times. This has caused you to become a little insecure and doubt him. Because you have lost your trust in him, it will never get out of the back of your mind. You probably check his phone ever chance you get. If there is someone to blame for your insecurity, it is him. So now the questions are: when was the last time he's lied? is this a reoccuring thing? What has he done to regain your trust? I'm just assuming, but, if you have put on a couple of pounds or have stopped taking care of yourself, then I suggest you get back on track. When you feel good, you look good and when you look good, you feel good. Don't be stupid though. Keep your eyes open. And put your foot down if you have to.
2006-09-27 16:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can nail someone else. Thats how.
If you are that jealous, then you shouldnt be with someone. If you are under 30 years of age, than you shouldnt have a serious relationship, anyway. But you wont do anything about it.
What do you want us to tell you? Get over it? He's fine? Go pile some firewood?
The only reason he would cheat on you is becuase you are being aBitch, and not meeting his needs... So knock it off.
2006-09-27 15:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by spiralings2099 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have an issue that you need to take care of.. If you cant trust a person you will never be happy, why would you want to worrie about that all the time if you dont trust him and you dont think you ever will then there no use in being togeather. But if he loves you and he tells you that and you honestly believe him then i think you should chill out and maybe get some help.
2006-09-27 15:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by wishuponastar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get some more self-esteem. Sometimes if we constantly accuse people of doing things, they will actually start doing them. Just trust him. Then you will have a right to be jealous....Don't let your jealousy push him away....Trust me it can happen....I've been there before. You should be able to tell if he is cheating...He will start acting differently...If u ask him if hes cheating he may get angry, upset, or frustrated just by you asking him that question.....
2006-09-27 15:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not going to put up with lies and you want him to be honest with you. Tell him that it is making you feel this way and that you know he loves you. If he cannot stop lying to you and tell you he loves you, then move on to the next level.
2006-09-27 16:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must tell you that you are correct to be concerned, because there's hardly anything worse than a liar and you cannot trust one. That should have been your cue to get rid of him and I would recommend doing so.
I think that your intuition is possibly telling you the same thing, because you appear to be so bothered by it. You shouldn't have to "tell yourself" or convince yourself about anything.
2006-09-27 15:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely , i comprehend that u r terrified of dropping him , and u wanna get his finished interest and u desire him 2 spend extra time with u , yet u would desire to understand that its not a contest between the two one in all u , and if u quite love him then u would desire to be happy 4 him instead of feeling jealous so i assume meaning that u only love the actuality that he loves u yet u dont quite love him ,coz whilst u do love somebody then u wuold sense happy whilst u see a grin on their face and whilst they gain own fulfillment and a few thing like that,besides i think of that u would desire to accomplish a little activities without your bf ,like possibly bypass 2 the gym and make new friends ,so this type your existence wouldnt be revolved around your bf and u ll end feeling this type desire it helps D choose U stable luck :-)
2016-10-18 02:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by balderas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you jump to conclusion ask yourself this
what do you want for yourself in life?
right now you're making yourself sick over this.really is he
worth this?
if you think he's cheathing then you need to catch him first
and then you can move on from this relationship and focus
on you
try to go for someone who does'nt make you feel insecure?
good luck
isabelle
2006-09-27 16:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen..u only live once. Stop stressing. if its meant to be it will be.. if he is gonna do something bad he is gonna do it regardless of what u say or do. u are only gonna make things worse by showing him u r insecure. relax and act confident.........he wont mess up!
2006-09-27 15:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by delias 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋