Okay, i like this guy... i also think he likes me... though seems to act as if i like another guy! so how do i let him know that i don't like the other guy?and he's the only one i'm looking at?because he's the only guy at school i'd ever go out with...at least on a will...and he's the only guy my family and friends approve of!
2006-09-27 15:48:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him well if u really like him ask him out.And wheneva u get around this other guy that it seems u like then try not to be so idk polite aorund him cuz maybe it seems to the guy u do like that the way u act around him is flirtaious.Juss ask the one u really like out and try to forget the otha guy..Much love and luck
2006-09-27 15:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first think about what may make him think that you are into the other guy. Is it how you act around the other guy, how you talk to him, etc? You may be giving the other guy the wrong signals and confusing the guy you are really interested in. I wouldn't worry so much about what your parents or friends think, because ultimately it is what you think that really matters. But do not totally discount what they think either. Think of them as a guide but not the deciding factor. Depending on how open you like to be, you could just tell the guy, but make it casual for example mention wanting to hang out with him some time. Good luck!
2006-09-27 22:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chuckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Okay, i like you... i also think you like me... you seem to act as if i like another guy! so how do i let you know that i don't like the other guy?and you're the only one i'm looking at? because you're the only guy at school i'd ever go out with." Then kissing him would probably work best
You can leave the part about your family out of it but it sounds like you know exactly what you need to tell him.
2006-09-27 22:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just go ahead and tell him. Say the other dude is just a friend and nothing serious is going on between you too. Or if you're too shy, ask maybe one of your best friend or ask one of his friends to ask him himself. Usually guys (most of them) aren't jerky when it comes to finding out a girl likes him. The worst he could do is make fun of you or say no, but i bet he's not going to make a big deal out of it for the whole school to know. So just take the chance, and you might be the lucky winner!
2006-09-27 22:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Emily C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing urgent in your case, honestly you should not be the one initiating or telling or proving to him that you like him, isnt that selling yourself short, you only think he likes you you have no further proof, maybe you think you have this chance, but if he does not really make the first move or you lack evidence that he indeed wants you, you could not possibly do anything about it, you just have to wait and see, i know waiting is really a waste of time if you really really want him, but you see, you would be happier if all came to you naturally without you ever having to intervene with any results,if he likes you too, let him do the talking
2006-09-27 22:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guy point of view, if he keeps bringin up that u lk another guy, then he likes you and is scared/nervous to tell u. dont tell him that u dont lk the other guy cuz then he'll feel secure and wont think he has to ask u out, but plz dont play hard to get to someone who already has a hard time asking someone out. find a way to let him know that u like him though. joke about it. play lk ur not serious and tell him u lk him. or tell ur freinds. if ur freinds are real girls... then in about an hour everyone that needs to, will know u like him. AKA HE WILL KNOW. and hopefully have the balls to ask u out
2006-09-27 22:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by ben s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u just b open with him and tell him ask him out on a date buy something cute but something small
2006-09-27 22:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by cindya60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel.You may be the one he's looking for as well.
2006-09-27 22:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....Have you tried TELLING him that.....Geez.. relationships would be so much easier if people just took a chance and told them how they felt about that person....
2006-09-27 22:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Air C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to happen it will. So ask him. Dont wait for him, otherwise you may be waiting for your own heart to break.
2006-09-27 22:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Brad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋