Boyfriend lives 3 hours away. I have 2 kids and he has two. Being a driven person, I go to great lengths to see him. He is more laid back and calls several times a day, and yet comes and sees me only occasionally.
Today he wasn't going to see me cause he was maybe going to work tonight. Yet suddenly there is this really cheap car for sale, 1 hour from where I live... and he is going to see it and then go back home so he can be at work tom. I thought he could leave earlier from here.
I am trying to understand, but this one, I just don't understand... Can you explain it to me, or should I take this personally?
2006-09-27 15:46:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
myabe you not a priority.. talk to him
2006-09-27 18:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, how are you? well lets get down to business, i understand that this man might seem like he is for you, but just because he is in similar life situation, doesn't mean that he is. trust me when i say this, that you need someone who is serious and ready to be devoted, you are just worried about frightening these men off because of your life situation with being a single mother. you deserve someone who knows what he wants and is not scared to undertake a women with children. do not waste your time !!! especially if this is the behavior you get from a man who lives too far away to make a solid and comfortable impact on you.
life is too short for you to keep going this way, I am a man, and
let me tell ya...... its the law of averages, don't be afraid to ask
for what you want and deserve. your very short acquaintance
alphamod2001@yahoo.com
2006-09-27 23:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by alphamod2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he doesn't see the urgency in purchasing a vehicle to see you...Why should he bother? He is happy with the way things have worked out between the two of you.
2006-09-27 22:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you see thats going on. Find a man closer to home. Go check out the clubs and buy yourself a drink.
2006-09-27 22:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to help you but really doesn't like the long drive
2006-09-27 22:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by royal_treat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read between the lines honey.
2006-09-27 22:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i understand how hard it might be to find someone else
but he is basically saying that he would rather do other things (sorry)
2006-09-27 22:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by motorheadss84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new dude - using you for friends with benefits.
2006-09-27 23:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ain't really diggin' on ya,Hon!
2006-09-27 22:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋