one of my guy friends suddenly came up to me and told me he liked my friend.my friend likes him back.I'm afraid they will ruin there friendship or do something stupid. should I tell her? it's killing me inside(PS:the guy is 15 and my friend is 12)wierd right?well love is love.
2006-09-27 15:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by checkit137m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats too young and yea u should...
2006-09-27 15:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by goldsaiyanst4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. First of all a 12 year old has no business being with a 15 yr. old. Next year he can be convicted of statutory rape if they are sexually active. Not to say your friend would do that at her age, but older boys can be very persuasive. If you think it would ruin their friendship then keep it to yourself. If they like each other enough they'll tell eachother on their own. If they are not mature enough to do that, they are not mature enough to be together.
2006-09-27 22:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by ammellisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew. At that age, they are a little too young to have a three year gap. Infact, its illegal because its three years and the boy could get in trouble for sexual interferance.
I would recommend not telling either one of them. Wait till their older and allow them to make the moves on thier own. That way, your not involved if something bad happens.
cover your own *** first
2006-09-27 22:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a baby and he is to old for her let her stay a little girl for a little while she will know about boys soon enough and if he likes her then he will wait for her push her head into her books if you are a true friend like you say glide her the right way good luck
2006-09-27 22:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell her. because if they find out that you knew they might not be friends with you anymore. and yes it is a little weird that he is 15 and she is 12. does she even realize if she have feelings for him? he is a teenager and she is not even one. but i guess love is love, like you said.
2006-09-27 22:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything because if you say something your friend will either get angry at you for trying to tell her what to do or she'll always come to you and ask you to choose her relationships and she'll be very dependent on you plus she needs to learn this on her own
2006-09-27 22:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love knows no age. but i do recomend keeping it a secret until he tells her if u tell it could ruin your friendship with him.if u dont it will turn out better who knows it could turn out compleatly different
2006-09-27 22:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by JaQ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her because since shes only twelve hes gunna move too fast for her since hes 15 but if you can see that they really like eachtoher then i say go for it.
2006-09-27 22:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both told you in secrecy is not your secret to tell !!! So keep it and maybe tell them both hey listen if you like him/her stop telling me already and tell her/him.
*** After that you are free of all guilt ***
2006-09-27 22:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say a word. let them figure it out. dont wanna be the one tht started the ruining right
2006-09-27 22:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should tell her. she'll be happy to hear it and if shes your friend you would be glad that shes happy. if they both like each other whats wrong with that?they'll be happy together
2006-09-27 22:42:47 · answer #11 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋